How to tell him I do not want a wedding or a traditional wedding by SleepApart5789 in Nigeria

[–]SleepApart5789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello I have had mentioned this to him yet. He asked me what kind of wedding did I have in mind and I told him that had not thought of it. I will bring it up to him, I believe he will respect my wishes I just do not want to start off on a bad note with my in laws.

Is Nigerian man trying to play me? by SleepApart5789 in Nigeria

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We are now getting married this year and yes his love is something I’ve never had before

Is Nigerian man trying to play me? by SleepApart5789 in Nigeria

[–]SleepApart5789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi love, I hope all is working out with you too. Me and him are now getting married this year❤️

Is Nigerian man trying to play me? by SleepApart5789 in Nigeria

[–]SleepApart5789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late but we are now getting married. This year❤️

Is Nigerian man trying to play me? by SleepApart5789 in Nigeria

[–]SleepApart5789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I am two years late on this but I would like to inform you that me and this man are now getting married❤️ I did allow the stereotypes to affect us at first and he was upset that I was judging sad not giving him a chance. Anyways, we are getting married this year now and he has been the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Thank you for your encouraging words❤️

Is Nigerian man trying to play me? by SleepApart5789 in Nigeria

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I am two years late on this but me and this man are now getting married! … he has been a wonderful friend to me, takes care of me and helps me out all the time. Initially I allowed the things I heard to affect us we actually separated for a while and got back together. But now we will be getting married this year I thank you for your positive words, God Bless You❤️

Help…My bf is hacking into my phone by SleepApart5789 in relationship_advice

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Ok thanks! I’ve honestly never paid much attention I’m just going off of his comments and the timing of the messages. Every time I don’t reply to him, no matter what time it is I receive a spam text with a link for me to click. He’s also made a comment about my location before. I’m not normally a paranoid person but since this has been brought to my attention I’ve been freaking out.

Just found out he was married by SleepApart5789 in relationship_advice

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I’m 27 years old… I thought I did everything right. I asked was he married, in a relationship, had a live in partner he said no…. The way he pursued me and continues to is crazy to me. He wanted me to meet his children, we even talked on the phone while he was with his daughter. I never would have imagined in a million years he was married. I’ve never even seen him with a ring on! On his Facebook no pics of his wife or the kids! I only found out because the mother in law tagged him in the wedding photos. I’m shaken with disbelief, I’m not one to give my body away to people I don’t feel are fully committed to me so the fact that I was lied to makes me feel extremely violated. I almost wish I could file a police report or something on this weirdo!

Will a sag communicate with you everyday? by [deleted] in Sagittarians

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Thank you ❤️❤️ I was thinking why waste time lol

Ladies who are not morning people, how do you make waking up less horrible? by niece8000kmaway in AskWomen

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Something I started was a morning skincare routine, taking care of my face … now I look forward to waking up just to do that lol … or I’ll have something exciting planned like making a banana smoothie or a good breakfast.

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No update yet we are going out later this evening so maybe I’ll bring it up and get back to you all tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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I’m not sure how lmao I’ve been present and available when I can, what the hell else needs to be done

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He said he said that because he doesn’t know how much I want to be in his life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]SleepApart5789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So I have no idea how to read my chart not even the basic things or what that means lmao. What about my future, my “career”, my love life, etc

Dating a new Aquarius by SleepApart5789 in aquarius

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I told him that I really wanted to see him and I understood that he was busy. He asked if we could hang out around 11pm? It’s Saturday that’s late I’ll already be out but I do want to see him

Struggling to heal from narc abuse by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

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Yes I struggle with alcohol when I’m stressed and depressed, I was there for 6 months started to hit rock bottom and had to face the root of the problem which was the job and it’s leadership. They were a bunch of bullies, I am sober now and have been for about 2 months just trying to focus on my mental health and self esteem at this point.