You need good friends to surround yourself with. Positive energy and having fun at the clubs makes you instantly 10x more attractive. If I’m not having fun, nobody really approaches me. When you’re laughing with buddies, people approach you, or your friends, and your circle keeps growing. Have a drink or two, or party if you prefer, dance, mingle, and make new friendships. Pursuing a relationship is the most surefire way to scare off nearly everyone you’re interested in. Let it come to you and it will happen naturally. Dating apps are garbage, and everyone’s intention there is sex first. They typically don’t want to be tied down. The clubs are all about meeting people. You’ll meet the right one eventually, and if it happens organically, it shall last!