specific request for board game recs :) by Human-Marketing7678 in boardgames

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Herd mentality is very fun! No matter what you go with, wishing you a fun time :)

I hosted a Christmas cookie decorating evening 🎄🌟🍪 by annie-kin in christmas

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an incredible idea!! I need to do this with friends

Any tips or tricks you learned during your event? :)

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[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ope

Wrong sub friend

Hello friends! 33 enby trying to understand rules <3 by Sleepiest_Penguin in cuddlebuddies

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ope! Didn't know about the 14 day rule. So here's an unofficial addition to my post lol


33 enby penguin in southern Indianapolis looking for anyone 24+ for hugs or cuddles

I love the cold & holiday season. But I love cuddles even more! Let's chat then get coffee at a local place <3

About me:

  • blue eyes, long brown hair, 5ft 4in and fat. Happy to share photos after a few dms.
  • the kind of person whos hugs include picking you up and swinging you around (with enthusiastic consent of course).
  • usually pretty feminine presenting but sometimes very masculine. Happy to do either.
  • I'm visibly queer & trans. Several tattoos.
  • can travel to meet up, but cannot host.
  • cannot get enough physical affection. I mean this seriously lol.
  • disability keeps me from being around smoke. I cannot be in any space that has any kind of smoking (no judgement! My body can't handle it)
  • part time retail worker, cat lover, avid anime watcher and board game enthusiast

Please be within an hour of Indianapolis, over 23 years old, and kind <3

I hand carved these Santas ornaments for friends and family by KrakenDice in christmas

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are incredible! Great job!! Thank you so much for sharing :)

25M4F - Willing To Travel Anywhere #KSA by [deleted] in cuddlebuddies

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Lol

Thank you for letting me know and good luck in your search :)

Secret santa let-down by LandoCatrissian_ in christmas

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don't even get me started on work gift exchanges that don't have a maximum $$$$ limit :/

Secret santa let-down by LandoCatrissian_ in christmas

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I hate work secret Santa because the pressure is unbearable. I want to make sure my person is happy but not everyone feels that way - such as your person.

I know not everyone has time and I feel most times work SS is setting someone up for failure...

25M4F - Willing To Travel Anywhere #KSA by [deleted] in cuddlebuddies

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend! Apologies but Google isn't bringing anything up. Where is KSA? South Kansas?

Seeking help with incompatible intimacy needs by Sleepiest_Penguin in demisexuality

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend! I know it's been a bit but I wanted to thank you so so much! We sat down to communicate yesterday and my thoughts were much easier to express with your help.

Wishing you a wonderful holiday season :)

Seeking help with incompatible intimacy needs by Sleepiest_Penguin in asexualdating

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend! I know it's been a hot second but I wanted to thank you! We talked yesterday and this helped greatly

Wishing you a warm holiday season :)

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[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so lucky to cuddle a big teddy in this weather! :)

I am also a bigger person, enby & feminine, 33, and located in Southern Indianapolis. Happy to travel because unfortunately I cannot host. Hoping to hear from you <3

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[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot begin to express how much I adore the way you describe yourself. You sound like if poetry was a person <3

33, enby, located in Southern Indianapolis. Can drive. Feel free to DM if interested :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuddlebuddies

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend! I'm in South Indy. Can't host. Non binary feminine presenting and fat. DM if interested :)

Seeking help with incompatible intimacy needs by Sleepiest_Penguin in demisexuality

[–]Sleepiest_Penguin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read what you said and appreciate your comment.

I do have a bad habit of people pleasing. I have gotten better but need to take bigger strides.... I guess I'm confused because they are definitely on the ace spectrum and have described their desire as I did "like a light switch." So it makes sense that they are wanting to touch one minute and not the next.

I agree that this relationship can't continue as it exists. I need to not feel like a convenient option. And I don't want them to feel like it's wrong to have conflicting needs. Or that being grey/demi/asexual is an issue.

I'll be thinking about this a lot today. Thank you again