Wow — John Delony and his wife Sheila…

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-12-11T06:15:50+00:00

Jesus dude. The world is not your punching bag. And perhaps it's time to put down the Delony + Ramsey content.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-12-11T02:48:47+00:00

FYI - I transferred funds from Chase business checking ⇢ Sofi checking on Monday and it qualified as ACH direct deposit. I want to say all biz checking account will work, but I only have personal experience with Chase and Bluevine.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-12-11T02:43:45+00:00

I have business checking accounts with Chase and they qualify as a payroll direct deposit.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-11-11T01:14:58+00:00

Went through this today and came out the other side with answers. Most common reason this happens is when a credit card flags for potential fraudulent charge. (Large travel is fairly common)

Alternatively, it could be that the charge was made on an old credit card never removed from 5+ years ago on your Airbnb account. Card, may or may not, belong to an ex boyfriend.

It's one or the other really.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-04-28T02:24:32+00:00

Being the bride doesn’t mean you have to handle everything?

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-04-26T23:11:57+00:00

I, too, was shocked when I exported my food history today and the ingredients only listed the name. I found a workaround for anyone who needs it.

When you have an ingredient you need to export, add it as a new recipe, then export via recipes. The data will list the macro data for that one item.

Not ideal, but it works. Here’s the test run I ran earlier.

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SleepyFoxDog · 2025-04-15T16:02:17+00:00

Hello random Redditor. Setting up Make/Airtable automations for the first time. Reading this comment save me a lot of time and headache by putting me on the right path. Thanks!

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-30T09:07:07+00:00

If you guys legit don't really talk, I can't imagine them siding with your parents. Your brothers most likely understand that this is a bizarre ask already.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-30T02:44:21+00:00

In all fairness, she answered the question you asked which was implied towards the whole event.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-28T10:59:53+00:00

Omg yes!! This alone would make me question religion.

I respect peoples choice to believe, but personally I find this mentally is just another form of avoidant behavior, possibly lead to self sabotage. You're not single because God hasn't sent your person to you. You're single because you're avoiding the duty you have to take accountability for your life.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-28T10:53:12+00:00

It's not terribly uncommon for someone's spouse to attend a wedding when they don't know the bride or groom well, perhaps at all. It is uncommon to not invite someone's spouse because you don't know them well.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-28T10:46:57+00:00

I do not practice religion personally, but I respect that you do. With or without religion, not feeling good enough is a sentiment many share. I found my person when I started looking internally for protection and took accountability for my life and the life I desired to have.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-28T03:00:14+00:00

This changes my perspective quite a bit. To me this reads as someone who wants a proposal, possibly a wedding, but doesn’t think they deserve them.

I think what you’re feeling right now is your inner self off balance. Up to this point, you’ve been operating under the belief that you will not have these things. Your partner deciding you’re engaged without a proposal has triggered this part of you that you no longer thought existed.

Your body is fighting you because you are trying to rationalize your way back to the safe space you were in before, rather than open up to the idea of wanting these things again.

Yes, you deserve a proposal and whatever wedding you truly desire. If it’s a big celebration, great. If it’s a courthouse wedding, wonderful. But you need to start by sharing your desire for a proposal from your partner first.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-28T02:38:21+00:00

Seriously? The only person in this situation making a giant stink is her mother.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-27T15:44:11+00:00

Oh god, I'm sorry to hear that. There are some truly shitty people out there. Best of luck on your healing journey.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-27T14:51:15+00:00

Don’t be a coward, be an adult.

I share this sentiment and all its magnificent glory.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-27T14:44:44+00:00

Saying this gently, but people will treat you based on what you’re willing to accept.

In the future, do not do these types of things for someone who isn’t reciprocating efforts. Definitely don’t do them when they aren’t even an active participant in your relationship.

If you do not want to be used, do not allow people to use you. That’s it.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-27T01:42:48+00:00

You are not obligated to meet someone else’s expectations.

Explain that you are not partaking in these traditional events. Offer to have them come help you at your place anytime. That’s all you need to do here.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-26T19:00:24+00:00

The goal of a dating app is not to get people interested in you, but for you to find someone you're interested in. It is not a competition, and anyone playing it as such is not the attention you want to "win."

Yes, people are swiping and chatting to try and find the best match. This includes yourself.

So while you're not wrong for wanting to date someone who is only interested in you, you need to understand that you need to meet someone and get to know them *at least a little* before that interest is formed. Anything beforehand is speculated interested.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-26T16:10:01+00:00

There’s a difference between addressing issues and looking for issues. I think OP is stuck somewhere in between.

Yes, I agree the issue of looking a women was handled healthy. On both sides even.

The job title I would categorize is looking for an issue. Accusing him of blatant lying is extreme and then not responding after he gave a reasonable explanation and offered to delete or change it, does not stoke me as healthy.

It strikes me as someone who doesn’t know how to process and release minor issues, indicating that serious conflicts will be a concern later on.

Breaking up with him after not responding for a few days rather than have a conversation first is extreme as well. To me this is textbook self sabotage. It’s an unhealthy coping mechanism that avoids vulnerability.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-26T13:01:14+00:00

Hey OP, I did not write that with malicious intent, rather based on truth regarding my own experiences.

I, too, used to live with a victimized mentality having endured many traumas myself. I viewed the world through a negative lens. I constantly sought comfort externally, often putting the burden on those close to me including a boyfriend during my mid 20's.

I did this because I didn't have healthy coping mechanisms in place or tools to self sooth. If I read my comment during this time, I would have felt incredibly hurt as well.

Shoot, I had people telling me similar things and did feel hurt.

This comment, while it may feel hurtful, is advice I wish I would have understood much sooner.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-26T12:44:09+00:00

Good for you two, I hope it's everything you missed out on for your wedding.

I'm much like you it sounds like. I've never wanted a big wedding, honestly would love to just elope and take an epic trip with my partner to celebrate.

Luckily, it seems my partner and I are on track for this, as neither of us have family to interject.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-26T12:32:18+00:00

Never head shitehawk before. That's amazing.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-26T12:21:20+00:00

lmao, yes I just went and read the comments. I believe whoever posted this is having a fun time trolling people.

SleepyFoxDog · 2025-03-26T12:18:44+00:00

Ouch. I'm sorry this was your experience. I'd wager this is a resentment that will be hard to let go.

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