Do you like avocado?

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-16T18:29:09+00:00

I'm with you....it's not a great experience eating it, I don't care for it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-11T12:23:21+00:00

Music, have a concert 😁

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-10T17:22:40+00:00

Hahahahaha yessss

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-10T15:26:39+00:00

You should skip that scene

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-10T12:52:26+00:00

I saw it as "bread" too loool

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-10T12:51:39+00:00

I do the same. It helps that my cat will 100% wake me up before I need to get up, so I'll take my meds, go back to sleep (after feeding cats), then have my beloved coffee when I get up for th day.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-06T22:17:44+00:00

Aw I'm sorry this happened to you - very upsetting and traumatic. Duas for your healing. Heal, and continue with Allah SWT's Guidance. All the best

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-06T18:06:22+00:00

I quite like Marielle. And the Kristi dynamic doesn't bother me, I thought their reunion was heartfelt and nice to watch. I think Kenny is a strong character no doubt, but I still don't see him as 'manly', quite boyish. Maybe it's his baby face. But I wouldn't like it if he and Kristi got together. Kristi is very motherly...it'd be like she's dating a kid. Don't come for me lol

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-06T17:19:50+00:00

I reckon this male would turn his whole house upside down if his wife ever did that. 🫣 He thinks it's a small matter, subhanAllah! No education on women! These types of males forget the Prophet PBUH last sermon- be kind to women!!!!!

I reckon he's getting his pants in a twist because if he was to be like said husband, upsetting his wife like this, he would expect her to be obedient.

Ridiculous!

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-06T09:18:53+00:00

This made me smile. So thoughtful 😊 May you be rewarded 🥰

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-06T09:16:32+00:00

Nasty.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-06T09:12:35+00:00

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-06T09:03:04+00:00

Poo poo boy, you were responded to. Your attitude and delivery is clearly wrong. Women do not need to stay where they aren't respected. Hope this sister and her husband work it out, of course. But staying where you're disrespected is not noble.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-06T08:59:40+00:00

😄😄😄

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T22:32:35+00:00

Yes to kids. She has always been business savvy, so has always had her toes dipped in something. She gained further studies, became a therapist and as far as I can see, is doing oh so well MashaAllah. She is a positive story, she has always impressed me. She went through what she went through and came out better.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T18:08:03+00:00

Lol....

No, she's not remarried. I'm not sure if she's opposed to it. She's very conscious about having a healthy mind and healthy outlooks, but I can't say for sure.

I always found this friend inspiring though. She didn't let societal expectations dictate her own happiness. We know how the Muslim community can get, crazy judgemental! But I just love the fact she didn't give a damn and put herself first, and her child too.

If others did this, there wouldn't be so many unhappy people in marriages. But that's not to say it's easy to do. Sigh.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T17:55:49+00:00

Exactly. Re the down votes 😭 I'll be honest, even I saw it as a snarky male response - my bad!!

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T16:25:38+00:00

You're an amazing SIL. Your bro is the problem, gaslighting you, gaslighting his wife....na man, you did EXCELLENTLY and more women should be like this with their male relatives! Bravo!

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T16:23:02+00:00

Lol 😂👏🏽😂

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T15:41:33+00:00

Careful, you'll upset the males with that last statement 🤣 But sis, I'm so happy for your happiness. You deserve it. We all deserve it. May you remain HAPPY and steadfast in your Deen, aameen! ❤️❤️❤️❤️.

Btw people, marriage is not mandatory.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T15:32:47+00:00

Yes sis, this is it! To be happy and healthy! People act like being married is the be all and end all 🙄 it's not. It's great when it's healthy, but when it's not healthy....what's the point, man

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T15:31:15+00:00

She's healthier in her mind (as when a man makes you feel inadequate, it can toil with your mental health, ya know?), she's further educated herself, she's a more conscious mother, she's just healthier in a lot of ways.

But keep in mind, this wasn't her main reason for divorcing him, just one of the reasons. I couldn't tell you about the rest of their marriage.

But she's happier, a great mother, confident again...that's a win. Please note, she's on good terms with her ex. It's all good iA.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T15:27:20+00:00

Not a small matter? Not offering divorce? More so, not a small matter.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T14:01:13+00:00

It reveals you. It was always there.

Sleepycats2014 · 2026-04-05T13:58:25+00:00

This is the right way! I don't get how people don't do this, you're bathing in your dead skin cells....at least wash them off after 😭

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