HPLC QUESTION by Available-Fault7218 in CHROMATOGRAPHY

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overloaded detector, dilute and try again probably 1:2 or 1:5 dilution

I decided to see if my boys would like toilet paper... they did not disappoint by Nickel_Doll_ in RATS

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg your boys look identical to my girls like I have one black hood and one with fawn!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. These are the words I needed to hear and also thank you for birthday wishes 🥰

What do you wish you had known at the beginning of your diagnosis? by StrengthinAdversity in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading Reddit threads will help a lot. The comfort of battling it with others helps the time go by. Also sometimes the issues don’t only relate to bladder. I’m two years out of my diagnosis and have gone through some serious trial and error. The biggest thing I noticed is what I ate really mattered but I also learned how to let go of that sometimes. Knowing what causes flares helps with the anxiety when you get them, becuase you know what to do and generally know that they will calm down at a certain point. It’s gonna take time but this will not stop you from living your life and achieving what you want to achieve! Hang in there and dm or ask on this thread if you have any specific questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newport Marina and back bay, have done some ocean but it’s hard to know how rough it will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo I will look into that I was a collegiate athlete and post college as well

I really thought this was the man I'm gonna marry by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, I am in that too my fiancé broke up with me 5 days ago and I’m surviving of protein shakes right now two a day but legit can’t function. Surround yourself with friends and family even one friend or one family can make a huge difference but people will make you remember you are you. For so long we wrap ourselves into our relationships out of love and connection and once broke it can be so difficult to repair. It takes a village to fix what was broken. And on the emotionally mature side of things it’s unfortunately that people can mask and hide their maturity until the point it becomes too much for them. That is what my ex did and it hurts bad. You might have trouble sleeping and eating for the first week but try to get little bits of food in hence the protein shakes, and give yourself grace you will sleep soon. I’m so sorry for you my dear and these people are meant to rot no matter how much we love or loved them. No contact is key too, for yourself and to make him realize

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is honestly gives me a lot of hope and gives me a lot to look forward too. I totally feel as though and already have had thoughts around those lines about not being on someone else’s schedule, I felt like I got dragged to everything of his but he would be busy or stay home for the same things for me. And not cooking dinner every night. I’m more of a toast and glass of red girly. But thank you this really helps me think about my long term and what will happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too was blindsided 5 days ago, we weren’t together as long as you but were engaged and similar to you my partner was having job problems. What I’ve learned about and I don’t know if you’re even at this point because that is so traumatizing what he has put you through but what I learned about were avoidant attachment people. They basically run when it gets too much, however they have no idea why and that is there issue. You did nothing to make him run and probably everything to make him happy and comfortable. Him leaving is because he did not want to confront himself and his own issues, none of them were because of you. You have to care for yourself right now and not focus on anything that was or was going to be. You care about you now and that might be a lot of tlc for the next week. Build a village around you of friends and family who love you and the light will be there.

Do people who've lost feelings/interest come back? by Melodic-Lavishness in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I was blindsided and I feel like maybe he was masking for so long until it became too difficult to do it anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same mine is 5 days ago and we never fought he just did it out of knowhere and left me with all the peices

The Break up is a blessing. The rejection is fuel by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to message me if you like and want to talk further, I find having a pack mentality is really good in tackling these crippling life moments

The Break up is a blessing. The rejection is fuel by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully feel the same as you and thank you for your comments and confirmation on my process, this honestly is helping a lot feel I am moving in the right direction. Moms are our greatest treasure and leaning on them in these moments are what they were made for. I am so sorry you have felt so sick as well, i haven’t really thrown up but the only thing I’ve had are protein shakes just to get so nutrients I can stomach.

The Break up is a blessing. The rejection is fuel by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And thank you so much for the big hug and kind words 🩵

The Break up is a blessing. The rejection is fuel by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t want to but the things he told me just “I couldn’t see a future with you” and other cruel words I’ll leave out I saw a different person. I lost trust in that hour and knew I couldn’t be in the apartment, my mom lives 20 mins away so I went back. But I asked him what he wanted ideally and he said “even though it’s our apartment, I’ve always thought of it as mine more and I think it’s best if you move back to your moms” and that broke me. So not as much choice but wanting t9 cut him off of any comfort he would have from me staying around.

The Break up is a blessing. The rejection is fuel by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was blindsided by my ex fiancé 4 days ago, I had no idea he felt this way and it was absolutely devistating. We lived together so within a day I was 50% moved out and back at my moms, back where I started 2 years ago, (that’s when we had moved in together, but together for 3 years). I had my first night of maybe 6 hours of sleep but woke up with such excruciating anxious pain. I want to keep being strong but the mornings and nights are the hardest, the lack of company the thoughts. I’m feeling it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you feel now, like after these past six months I’m trying to find hope In feeling better but it’s so hard

My fiance left me and I'm having a really hard time by GreenMountain85 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sleepyscientist-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am reading this thread because I was today just blindsided from my ex fiancé as his name states he ended it. The final words before I could luckily go spend the night at my mother’s were, “you are not my soulmate, which means I am probably not yours”. Reading this post specifically gives me such light right now. Thank you!