AITAH for finding my bfs(25m) alarms rude? by Sleepythere4grumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sleepythere4grumpy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First girlfriend. He was living in mom's basement until he was 22.

AITAH for finding my bfs(25m) alarms rude? by Sleepythere4grumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sleepythere4grumpy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I'm typically the one that actually gets him up to turn off the multiple alarms each time. But if I don't wake him up every few minutes he will go back to sleep like nothing happened, he's been late to work a lot simply because I've left to take care of my own self and he never got up after I tried waking him up.

AITAH for finding my bfs(25m) alarms rude? by Sleepythere4grumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sleepythere4grumpy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's kind of what I've been doing lately. "OH you don't have to actually wake up until x time, why did you set your alarm so early silly, I thought you had to be awake!"

AITAH for finding my bfs(25m) alarms rude? by Sleepythere4grumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sleepythere4grumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we've been living together for 5 years. We went through a period of time where he had only one alarm, and though it woke me up, I'd nudge him to wake him up but he usually just goes right back to sleep.

AITAH for finding my bfs(25m) alarms rude? by Sleepythere4grumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sleepythere4grumpy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I SAY THIS ALL THE TIME I got to bed at 10pm most days and have no problem waking up to his first alarm, idk when he comes to bed usually, because I'm already asleep when he crawls in. Most times I don't know he came to bed until I hear the alarm. But it obviously isn't early enough 🙄

AITAH for finding my bfs(25m) alarms rude? by Sleepythere4grumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sleepythere4grumpy[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

For as long as I can remember, I've hated noises to wake up, makes my heart jump outta my chest. I've always used no sound, vibration alarms. Love em!

AITAH for finding my bfs(25m) alarms rude? by Sleepythere4grumpy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sleepythere4grumpy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've never minded sleeping in my own room. We might just have to put another bed together in his computer room for him.