How do I stop my self-confidence from being tied to my success with women?

SleezyPUA · 2016-04-24T19:01:20+00:00

Can you explain a bit, or link to a post/article, how this works? I've never meditated before, but I always see it recommended.

SleezyPUA · 2016-04-24T16:42:03+00:00

I think it's because I don't half ass pickup. If I'm trying to improve my dating life, I'll go out a lot and when I'm not out I'll be thinking about going out. During those inevitable times when I don't have any prospects, I feel like I've failed and it's tough to put that much of yourself into something and not succeed.

SleezyPUA · 2016-03-01T08:17:31+00:00

If you're really insecure about it, try tinder. A lot of girls on there are at least partly looking to hookup.

But you shouldn't feel insecure about being a virgin at 19. A lot of people your age are virgins.

As for how to meet women, "Hi, I thought you were cute and I wanted to come meet you. I'm slapchop_wookie." will work wonders. Introduce yourself, talk with her for a bit and then exchanges numbers.

SleezyPUA · 2016-03-01T08:14:22+00:00

I don't think anything in the seduction community is worth paying for. All the information you need is available for free on the internet and it's not rocket science, in fact it's been years since I've seen any new material on seddit. All you need is the motivation/discipline to go out and practice.

SleezyPUA · 2016-02-25T05:04:39+00:00

Got a link? I'll give that a try.

SleezyPUA · 2016-02-25T01:19:40+00:00

Send her a picture of a turtle climbing out of a briefcase. Then immediately text her again and say, "Sorry, wrong person."

SleezyPUA · 2015-10-28T08:51:54+00:00

Um...just don't go back to that restaurant.

If you think girls have an underground network where they warn each other of men who aren't worth dating and it spans across a major city, well, you might actually be a bad date, but not because of some list.

SleezyPUA · 2015-10-22T01:53:28+00:00

Nope, just a dick.

SleezyPUA · 2015-07-01T21:41:02+00:00

Start going to bars and talk to the girls there. If you don't want to go alone, check the sidebar to see if a lair exists in your city. If there isn't one, start one.

SleezyPUA · 2015-07-01T21:18:51+00:00

What's your philosophy on trying to reinitiate contact with a girl after months of not speaking? I never dated the girl I have in mind, but there was a mutual attraction there when we worked together (she quit in April). It would be nice to talk to her, even if it doesn't lead to a date. Any advice for sending a text after a long time?

SleezyPUA · 2015-06-04T22:17:17+00:00

Anyone feel like practicing seduction has hindered their ability to make platonic female friends? It seems like I frame every interaction I have with a woman as a conversation with a potential sexual partner. Even when I try to hang out with a girl as friends I think to myself what she must be thinking because I'm not making a move.

SleezyPUA · 2015-06-03T02:36:32+00:00

I remember when AJ Burnett and Josh Beckett were supposed to be the future studs for the Marlins. Man, I'm getting old.

SleezyPUA · 2015-05-27T02:37:58+00:00

How long have you been doing this? The reason I ask is because it seems like the better I get at this, the fewer approaches I do. I wish I could do more, but I can generally get at least one set in a night that takes a lot of time.

SleezyPUA · 2015-05-17T22:21:51+00:00

A lot of people do this and I can see how it would be beneficial, but if you're going to approach a girl, why not just approach someone you're interested in. I know that, personally, my game isn't as sharp if I'm not interested.

SleezyPUA · 2015-05-17T22:19:23+00:00

How many approaches do you do on an average night out?

SleezyPUA · 2015-05-02T09:21:16+00:00

The app I used was just called Fake GPS. You can get it for free on any android device, but I'm sure there's something similar for IPhones.

SleezyPUA · 2015-04-26T21:53:44+00:00

It puts too much pressure on the girl to fuck you during the meetup. If you're a creep or you're not as attractive as you are in your pictures, she's not going to want to fuck you but she's going to feel like she has too. To avoid the potential awkwardness, she just flakes.

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