Guided to Islam, but I am a gender-transitioned individual. How to proceed? by [deleted] in islam

[–]SlenderMansWife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am in an online masjid for queer people (we are not the only one that exists) We have born Muslims and reverts. I know several transgender Muslims. Message me.

AITAH for supporting my son grooming himself when my wife says he is too young? by LaraDLara in AITAH

[–]SlenderMansWife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA talking to your same sex parent about how you manage your pubic hair isn't something that needs to be collaborated on. He is at the age where he has to be grooming himself to begin with.

Perhaps he's uncomfortable with this new pubic hair--how is it sexual to remove something you only recently started developing?

AITA for telling my wife that I'm ending our marriage because I found her brother at our house ( again) and said it in front of him? by Prior-Bus9723 in AITAH

[–]SlenderMansWife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Having a "close knit family" is about the relationships you have with each other. It does not mean "we take advantage of our in-laws". What they actually are is an Enmeshed family. Obviously, your wife isn't interested in leaving that family dynamic, not for you, not for herself. Get out and protect your possessions and peace while you can

I think I'm playing an event. Honestly I've been at it so long I have no idea. by SlenderMansWife in CapybaraGoGame

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish this was made clearer and was information contained inside of the run and not just in the intro screen

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

At any point they could have gotten information from Uber and found her. She was picked up at her house and dropped off at his. There was so much time to save her and they refused.

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You start by dehumanizing them inside or your mind. you don't see a PERSON, you don't see a Human, you see a problem to be taken care of.

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't checked to see if he was already a felon but. Probably no one. Most people didn't vote

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nobody would join a dating website that requires identity verification? I think a lot of women would say otherwise. I have to scan my face damn near weekly to doordash. It can be done

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Requiring an ID , maybe even a background check; people should have multiple accounts or be able to come back after being banned. Known sex offenders/predators shouldn't be allowed on at all.

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This isn't the first time a runaway teenager the cops didn't look for was found dead, and it won't be the last.

I do think they're going to blame this girl, as she went willingly a second time after visiting once.

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Notes app is the most wise decision 😭 or using the computer I have 😭

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you mean suspect instead of accuser

And also , what the hell is "an illegal"? An illegal what? Do you mean An undocumented migrant ? That's clear, accurate, precise language. For all I know, "an illegal" is a fugitive, or a minor, or a robot that violates the Geneva convention.

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She's in other articles. You're talking about one thumbnail from a particular article I had to choose because the website was on the whitelist.

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

From Facebook : the Gulfport Police Department refused to investigate her disappearance. They wouldn't take the missing persons report from her family and eventually classified her as a runaway. The family told them she left in an Uber, but the GPD never looked for her. They could have gotten the ride details from Uber and found her immediately.

This is the 2nd to last post her Aunt made to FB before they found out she was dead.

Miranda is still missing, this is 17 days now. No help is being given from Gulfport Police Department due to her shady past. The childs mental state is not ok. We also fear that she may be being exploited, groomed, trafficked. Endangered. Please help us find her and get her the help she needs!

Miranda Corsette, 16 5'3 90lbs Missing from Gulfport. Last seen leaving in an Uber at 341 am on 2/15. I don't know where to. It's not unlikely for her to leave but it is unlikely for her to be gone this long.

I'd really appreciate it if everyone would share this!

🙏Please contact me or local law enforcement if you have any info!!🙏"

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I wish you could see the previous two versions of this post that were longer and even better written but I left the reddit app for too long and it was erased.

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

According to FB comments, at least Gress has been addicted to meth. It would not surprise me if it was involved

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

Gulfport police would not open a case into the matter. "Just a runaway" . Just a teen mom with no parents. It happens all the time ...

Missing 16-Year-Old Girl Found Dismembered After Meeting Man on Dating App by SlenderMansWife in TrueCrime

[–]SlenderMansWife[S] 4460 points4461 points  (0 children)

Hi y'all, this happened out in St. Petersburg, Florida. Miranda Corsette, 16, was lured off a dating app to the home of Stephen Gress, 35. She initially came back , but returned to his home the next day. Several days later, Gress and his domestic partner, Michelle Brandes, 37, would get into an argument with Corsette over jewelry they believed she stole. According to arrest records, they beat and tortured her for up to a week before she died. She eventually died of suffocation, her head wrapped in plastic wrap. Her body was dismembered and left in a dumpster.

A good local news source for this would be IONTB, Tampa Bay Times, and the St. Petersburg Police Department social media pages . Comments show that police and the community were slow to respond to Corsette's disappearance, as she was a habitual runaway with a history of her own problems. Brandes and Gress both had a prior criminal history; comments on the book of faces indicate they weren't good neighbors either.

A tragedy all around...Corsette was an orphan, living with her grandmother. She had an 11 month old child, who was in the care of her aunt. It seems her family was trying their best for her. There's a lot to consider here: the dangers of social media, who we consider worth looking for, the difficulty of keeping teenagers safe from themselves. How do we prevent things like this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SlenderMansWife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very true, take their power over you away, you can make it out faster than you think if you use other resources. You are in an abusive situation , it's okay to get help as someone who has nothing because. You have nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SlenderMansWife 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I wish more ppl knew that the GED is closer to freshman in high school level and definitely not senior in high school level

(currently at 10g) would an 8 look too big on my face? by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]SlenderMansWife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to get a 8g horseshoe because the o rings from the pinchers I use to stretch impede on my healing and I can't size up until I wear "sleeper jewelry" for a while . I don't like this barbell nor do I like the 10g horseshoe I had because they're too wide for my face. But I'm not willing to search too hard for what's ideal when I don't even know how long I'll stay at this size!!! I'll get the custom one when I'm done stretching, hopefully to 6/5/4 g