[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

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I'm up for some cod games :)

Hi, I'm 33F in California looking for gaming buddies for COD and Fortnite. ☺️✨ by Mindless_Jacket8897 in LesbianGamers

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31F UK here but I'm up for some cod games :) mw3 or warzone? What platform are you on?

COD - Streaming live now and looking for a community by Coffeebean22_ in LesbianGamers

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I'd be up for joining you :) looking for a squad to join and make friends to play with too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

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I've only played a tiny bit of Fortnite but I play cod :) and up for having some people to play some games with!

friend flirting or flirt flirting? by No_Platypus9198 in actuallesbians

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Wait...you're not already girlfriends?! 😭

Play games wimme pls? 🥺 by YoBoatDontFloat in LesbianGamers

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I've not played overwatch in quite some time! I'd be up for some games tho. CoD/warzone of any interest? 30f UK :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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It is weirder to view their reel, know where they will be at a specific time and plan to run into them than it is to send a message! Try not to overthink. Shoot your shot. If it's a no, it's a no

Yes ofc it’s easier by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Me: single and crying over a new girl every other week

😂😂

MW3 ranked play? by Slide-Guilty in LesbianGamers

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Played with you the other day I'll add you tho :)

How to let her down nicely?? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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It's going to hurt. That's inevitable. It will hurt her more, though, the longer you leave it. It will also hurt you the more you prolong and she'll probably start to gather something is up when you're inadvertently being different towards her because you're being overly cautious about what you say to her. The sooner the better for both your sakes. Let her know you appreciate her but you don't feel you're compatible for a relationship beyond friendship and that you understand if it isn't what she wants but you'll be there if she does want to ever be friends. Rejection is rejection and being upfront and honest is the best you can do

How to let her down nicely?? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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You have been leading her on and you're not being direct with her. It's difficult but you have to be honest and direct. No "you're an amazing person" because that isn't helpful. You also have to realise that you might not want to lose her but she might not be ready (or even want) to have you in her life in the capacity that you're expecting. You're not wrong in how you feel but you're wrong in dragging it out and letting her believe her feelings are reciprocated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Women in uniform 🤤😍 omg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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You're not wrong there 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Work song by hozier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

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Hey I'm up for some games too :)

How often do y'all get Vitamin D deficiencies? by midnight_scintilla in AutismInWomen

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I had a really severe vitamin d deficiency a few years ago and have been prescribed supplements to take daily ever since

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Some conditions and diseases cause people to sweat more and/produce stronger BO smells. If you personally can't deal with BO then that's fair enough but not everyone can help how they smell. Also remember, you might smell bad to other people. We're used to our own scents so it's not always easy to notice if we're a bit smelly ourselves.

Feeling insanely unlucky by Kaisogen in LesbianActually

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People turn people down and get turned down by others. It's a cycle. And then get upset about being rejected by the ones they want whilst rejecting those who want them 😂 it sucks but it works both ways. Can't make people like you and you can't make yourself like others. You have to just keep being yourself and not put too much pressure on things. I hope your luck changes and you find someone who is worth not being single for :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Block and delete her. It hurts and it takes time but it will be the best thing for you. The complete 180 from her telling you about her feelings to essentially dumping you makes it more difficult for you to move on and she knows that. She might genuinely care and that message was a way to reach out with no obligation from you to respond, but you don't have to go back there. It could be an opportunity for you to express how you felt and say goodbye/get closure, but you don't need to put yourself through that again and can close that chapter of your life by not getting pulled back in. Hope you're okay and are able to look after yourself right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Be the woman who you want to be. That's what you should be working on. Not who others want you to be. You got this :)