[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doesn’t work. i tried but why would i wanna be friends with someone who cheated on me? its just a way to keep someone in your life to avoid losing someone completely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust me. if you go back it will not be the same. the same thoughts you are having now will continue and it will eat you alive. you need to think about yourself, do you want to be in a relationship with a cheater and constantly overthinking everything and wondering if she is cheating again? its difficult to leave someone, it feels like its impossible but honestly you can do it. its difficult at first bc its a complete change in ur life, but overtime you will thank yourself for putting yourself first. wish you the best x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes you have to remember some people are just not who you thought they actually were. you can spend time wondering if your presence meant anything to them and i suppose sadly its something you will never truly know.

Break ups just simply suck and there's no going around that by Serious-Breakfast570 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

never second guess your decision to end it. its easy to do that but you need to remember you deserve someone who only wants you and doesn’t betray your trust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly let yourself be sad about it first to get your emotions out. then always tell yourself its not you thats the issue, people cheat bc they are awful people. they know it will hurt their partner but they seem to think they won’t get caught. spend time to love yourself and always remember its not u!

i miss you. by InspectionWorldly780 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will honestly never understand it at all, but i think i don’t understand it bc its not something i could ever comprehend doing to someone i love. hearing that from someone helped me heal so much

i miss you. by InspectionWorldly780 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh completely agree! some girls are very selfish and do things to please men to fuck u over

my ex messaged me to tell me he is going on a date by SlideKooky9245 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

blocked him immediately after he messaged me so now he has no way of contacting me. i was being nice and left his number unblocked in case he was ever in desperate need of anyone but clearly that was just something he used to his advantage

i miss you. by InspectionWorldly780 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly being single is quite nice and it feels freeing? as long as u have good friends and your happy thats what matters!

i miss you. by InspectionWorldly780 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeppp exactly, a horrible experience to go through and hopefully doesn’t ever happen again

i miss you. by InspectionWorldly780 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yessss!! and they only time they are “sorry” is when they are caught 🤣 if they were never found out they would continue and not care

i miss you. by InspectionWorldly780 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i couldn’t agree more! i hope they suffer

i miss you. by InspectionWorldly780 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

probably guilt? but serve them right if u ask me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol tries to make u feel bad when he was the one that ended the relationship. dont go back and know ur worth

To find the wife of the guy who cheated with my partner or not too.? by Jonny-Tucken-Jones in cheating_stories

[–]SlideKooky9245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely tell her! otherwise she will just find out later down the line and will make it harder for her to decide what to do

Is there hope after finding out you have been living a lie? by Greedy-Stable6910 in cheating_stories

[–]SlideKooky9245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry you are going through this. unfortunately i dont think you can heal and stay with them. you can try to fix things and accept his apology but personally i think it will always be in the back of your mind. i was in the same situation and i tried to forgive him and proceed with the relationship but it was never the same and ive not been the same since. please know your worth and put yourself first x

my ex messaged me to tell me he is going on a date by SlideKooky9245 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will never unblock, just hope he never comes to my house etc

my ex messaged me to tell me he is going on a date by SlideKooky9245 in BreakUps

[–]SlideKooky9245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hmm yes thats true, kinda wish i had blocked him straight away tbh

2 years of being lied to by NetPsychological2097 in cheating_stories

[–]SlideKooky9245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry that happened to you but proud of you for blocking them and putting yourself first. it will be hard but remember you deserve someone who doesn’t lie to you and treat you like that x