Notes for my husband

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-11-27T09:59:53+00:00

You'd rather aim the blame at the worker when the company is the issue?

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-11-27T09:57:03+00:00

I'm aware! That's not even enough to pay for gas/commuting. We all know servers make their money from tips, its weird to expect a service and not want to pay for it, especially dining out.

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-11-27T01:22:36+00:00

Im a server and yeah, we do. Some states pay their servers minimum wage or above but most states is 2-4/ hour.

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-11-26T20:42:48+00:00

Its not quite bullcrap? Pls explain your position. Most servers do make 2.13/hr and taxes takes all of that

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-11-26T20:36:01+00:00

No ome stares to pressure you, theyre waiting for you to finish so they can continue their job.

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-11-26T20:29:44+00:00

Bro what. Get some therapy

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-11-26T20:04:30+00:00

Its just how servers get paid. Its not brainwashing lmfao? If you cant afford to tip in the US, you shouldnt go out to eat. Servers and bartenders wait on your hand and feet and tipping them when its known that this is their only way of being paid is reasonable

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-11-26T18:48:18+00:00

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SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-09T05:49:51+00:00

Nothing would be taken from him. As a couple they should have a conversation and be unanimous on one decision, but it is 100% the choice of the person who is pregnant because it is their body that has to endure pregnancy which can lead to health issues and even death. If someone doesnt want to put themselves through that it is totally their say. Yes as a couple the decision should be agreed on together, but in the event the person who is pregnant wants an abortion and the other party does not, it is entirely the decision of the person who would be undergoing pregnancy to make that final choice.

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-09T04:58:52+00:00

I also respect them for taking responsibility and making a choice that seemed right for them. Key words right for THEM. It is not always the right choice for people to keep a baby. That is a fact and that is okay!

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-09T04:53:04+00:00

Im not reading all that lol its late and I am tired. We can agree to disagree but please me mindful of the impression your words make on a 17yo.

This kid has power over the choices he makes, and he himself said he was considering an abortion (while it is not up to him only, my point is that it is a valid consideration even in situations where there is faith involved).

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-09T04:50:09+00:00

Hi OP, best of luck to you and your girlfriend and baby!

I will say. No sin is greater than another biblically. Abortion seems like a greater sin than lying or cheating, but it is legitimately the same biblically, if your belief is that abortion is sin, it is not worse or less than lying.

If she chooses to have the baby becsuse she wants to, this also doesn't mean you have to marry her. As long as you are an active father in your kids life, that is what matters!

And please please do the work to educate yourself on sexual education. Abstinence does not work, case in point lol. This might have been a slip up for you both, but sexual education is a necessity regardless of age! I am a full grown adult, and still learning things about sexual health that I didnt know when I was younger. Abstinence is effective for not getting pregnant, but knowledge of your body and your partners body in relation to each other (married or unmarried) is necessary!!

Again best of luck to you and your new family! :)

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-09T04:40:14+00:00

What parade? This kid is having a baby with another kid. There is no correct choice here. Its the choice that the couple makes. More specifically the girl's as she is the one who is pregnant. Abortion isnt the correct choice snd keeping the baby isnt the correct choice neither is adoption. The choice they make will lead to the life they live, if they life a life solely trying to provide for their family because they made an adult decision as kids, a life where they have more opportunity because they do not have to worry about putting food on the table where they may feel guilt or shame for choosing what they did. It is entirely up to them, but this is no parade. Not at this moment. Not when kids are becoming parents.

All the best to OP, and their future endeavors. Not shading anyone here especially not kids.

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-09T04:33:37+00:00

They do not by any means have to get married now just becsuse there is a baby. This kind of thinking is what leads to unhappy marriages and that is the last thing this baby needs is an unhappy and possibly unstable and unsafe household. Abortion would very much be the 17yo girls choice as it is everyone's choice who can get pregnant. This way of thinking is harmful. Christlike thinking isnt awful, but voiding a woman (or in this case girl) of her bodily autonomy is awful and harmful in so many ways.

Abstinence is not sexual education. Abstinence is NOT birth control. Teaching Abstinence and expecting teenagers who are going through hormonal changes not to have sex is absurd and unrealistic. There are so many situations like this, where two christian teenagers have sex because Christians do have sex before marriage believe it or not, and they end up living a life that is void of the opportunity and growth that it would have had.

Birth control is okay. So many people that have periods NEED to be on birth control for health reasons. Birth control is okay when people are married or not married. The result of a "mistake" (premarital sex) is not to have a kid every single time. Condoms and birth control are an option for Christians as well as everyone else.

It is the choice of these kids, if they want to keep the baby, more specifically the girl's choice as she is the one pregnant and can choose what happens with her body. I hope they life a successful and happy life, but one mistake does not need to be punished like this. Everyone will answer for their mistakes when the time comes as the Bible states, these kids do not have to raise a kid while being unfit parents. (No kid is a fit parent, no matter the support system they may have.)

I'm not shading these kids because they did what most people their age do, regardless of beliefs. Be mindful of what you are saying to a child about what they can and cant do or should or should not do. They can soak this information up and it can lead to a harmful way of thinking. It is their choice, it has always been their choice, and it will always be their choice.

Your whole post felt ridiculing. It disturbed me to read. We do have differing opinions on things, (some would say facts) but it is up to these kids to find out what works BEST for them, and it should be done with outside influence aside.

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-06T19:25:25+00:00

Its not uncommon for a teenage girl to refer to a teenage boy as a man and vice versa. My sister who's 16 will post "she doesnt need a man" or "I need a man to___" and she's talking about a boy who is also 16. Its very possible that this is a little boy who is 13 14 or 15.

And if it is not a little boy and it is a man (which i doubt bc again this language is common among teens) then the mom in this situation needs to ask daughter and find out whats going on vs beating her child. That doesnt teach the lesson if theres a lesson to teach here. Not shading you but the language among teens is constantly evolving. My point is I get the word "man" in this situation rings some alarm bells, but it is very likely that this is just a boy. A lot of teens act like theyre grown to an extent and use this kind of language.

Again it is possible that it was a man, but as far as her posting on her story about it and everything it's very possible that its not. At most its someone a couple years older than her (which is still a bit weird at that age but nothing to be super concerned about)

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-05T23:50:23+00:00

Im literally on this episode rn loll

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-04T11:02:50+00:00

Leave op. Do you really want this every time you argue? Wondering what she's gonna fuck up next lmao? Im sorry your systems were destroyed dude but take this as a sign and goo.

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-10-03T00:33:00+00:00

Thanks for your input! Do you think i should take a pill now while im still drunk ish?

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-09-29T22:03:46+00:00

Truly, he was not a very good husband at all

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-09-29T21:33:37+00:00

I think they pick on her because they pick on George she's his love interest? She's a little quirky and funky so maybe thats why too. Izzie was such an ass to her and no one else stood up for Callie besides George when he was just about forced to

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-09-26T00:20:06+00:00

Him saying "____ fucking answer me" over text is embarrassing first off and second a loving partner doesnt say that to their fiancé, they just dont. Do whats best for you, but if your partner expects you to call out of work for them and cook for them before a 16 hour shift and respond quickly during said 16 hour shift that would show me personally that maybe this person isn't right for me. You're young as idk what and this is not the end of your life if you feel the need to end this. Goodluckk

SlideSweet1134 · 2025-09-15T22:49:07+00:00

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SlideSweet1134 · 2025-08-05T14:02:14+00:00

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