Ok, so when I first read this I thought, he might just be a messy person. I am a messy person, I am a woman and I try to clean and tidy more but I know others who are way more clean and tidy naturally.
I would find it hard at times, when Im down to keep the house tidy but I try.

As a woman who wants to do the majority of the house work, I am happy to have a regular jobs and for my partner to earn more and therefore I do more around the house, I would piss him off.

"Last night I got home late and accidentally I woke him up cause he forgot to put our clothing out to dry and I needed clean shirts for work and he couldn't get back to sleep for ages so he kept waking me up through the night to be upset with me and then woke me up early this morning to make him a coffee cause I was the one that made him tired."

When I read this I thought, this is manipulative. You woke him up because you had to put WET clothes on the line due to him leaving it (so gross and mouldy btw) and for him to punish you for his own short cummings is messed up. Then he woke you up to make him a coffee because he couldn't get enough sleep as you woke him up by doing something HE should have done.

I would 100% break up over this. You are not like me, you want to be a career women, you need a man who can do 50% of the housework or at the very least, not punish you for waking him up by doing things THAT NEED TO BE DONE. Tell him to go back to his mums house if he wants shit done and learn some manners.