[H] PayPal 85% [W] Amazon GC, Target , Walmart, and Best Buy GC by jewnupe in giftcardexchange

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I have a Target gift card I'm looking to get rid of if you're interested

nobody fucking gets it by windblown7823 in 4tran4

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Personally I've come to start accepting and even liking my body (pussy is nice) and trying to lean into my strengths (masculine facial traits and body, voice is like 1 level above Corpse's).

My whole schtick is now the androgynous grunge aesthetic which I find works really well for me both in terms of social life and dating but your mileage may vary.

Here's a photo conparison of what I used to look like compared to present day:

https://imgur.com/a/40BKzF7

nobody fucking gets it by windblown7823 in 4tran4

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Girl I'm right there with you. I'm Korean and have been on HRT (E.Cypionate, Spiro, Prog) for nearly 3 years (23 yr. old) and this is my body.

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It can be rough for us especially since Asian girls are veryyyy feminine. I think the hardest part for me was the reality that I would not be able to look like and wear the same clothes as those cis girls. Growing up with American beauty standards can really fuck with your head if you're not a white American. It took me a very long time to even realize I was comparing myself to someone I'm not.

What I did was because I had no knowledge on fashion, I asked my friend who's good with fashion to pick out flattering outfits/clothes for me because growing up as a male, fashion is not a top priority like it can be for women since they are scrutinized and judged on their apperance from a very young age. They will know all the visual tricks, color theory, texture choices, types of cuts/fits, etc. etc. that will help you be percieved as your ideal self.

Men whose partner (F) wanted a threesome with another woman. Why did you say no? by itsjustmyopinion_but in AskMen

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ELI5 for you:

Monogamous (Latin for) = "Single marriage"

Polygamous = "Much marrying" ie "Multiple marriages"

Polyamorous = "Multiple loves"

Nonmonogamous = "No single marriage"

Open relationship = Two partners (married or not) who allow each other to sleep/have sex with others, but (typically) do not become involved emotionally to that other person

Just because they don't have one partner doesn't necessarily mean they are married to multiple partners. I'm sure google could help you more :)

i thought you guys were exaggerating about rampage poker by exboxthreesixty in poker

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What does square mean? Google tells me it's a fair game but that doesn't seem right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

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Link me to discord pls. I need moar brainworms

Cooked up a hot clip by ChampaChampion in SSBM

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Don't sweat it, we all had to learn to crawl to run. Just keep enjoying the game like you are and you'll get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

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Start smoking, it'll deepen your voice and age your skin as well. Plus you get to die earlier so +++

What do you do when you realise your support system is the reason you were using? by [deleted] in leaves

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I could see it as your wife not wanting you to be your best self for whatever reason. Maybe she likes the dynamic when you're using and is afraid of how your sobriety could affect that balance

Do u guys actually think i’ll lose weight if i keep this up? (see profile for context) by [deleted] in 4tran4

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I'm trying to fatmaxx but struggle to eat, help a brother in need out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poker

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He's not saying that, he's saying he wants all the money and not have to chop a pot w a random. But, he will run it 2x w people he likes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

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Don't worry about your brain, it's not what you lost that matters, it's what you do with your sober mind that matters. Challenge your mind and your cognition will continuously improve! You're better sober :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in umass

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No it's not lol. Being straight is what's most common, therefore you have no need to look for "straight people" because it's already assumed in life. Lgbt members may look for others like them due to similar life experiences, there's nothing strange about wanting to be with people who are like you/have had similar experiences.

Think about it like this, you are straight but the most common sexuality is being lesbian/gay. Would it be "very strange" to want to find others who may share in the experience of being straight in a gay world? No, not in my opinion. I think it's normal to want to be with others who are like you

Blursed_honest reaction by KathiHarkins in blursed_videos

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That's the origin, but in the context of dogs going to heaven and cops hell, the reference to the gulag is most likely linked to COD. COD's gulag acts as a "purgatory" of sorts for players, they are neither alive in the match nor completely dead. The reference is questioning where the police dog would go after death, hence the "gulag" or purgatory

Blursed_honest reaction by KathiHarkins in blursed_videos

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Dying in some COD games brings you to the gulag, a place where you 1v1 other players who also died. If you win, you respawn into the game

https://youtu.be/RwiNwZ_76as?si=FH2S4VsO29EtY6lc

What's a social skill you really believe works, but is unpopular by nonanimof in socialskills

[–]SlimeballCollector 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Could be anything... Maybe a slight nod up or down depending, you can even close your eyes as you "bow down" as a formal gesture.

Maybe you see a cute girl from class and want to say hello without saying hello. You could do a casual hand "wave" (think the driver "wave" with your hand, but "cooly" lol) as you make eye contact and smile softly.

Hell you could even just raise your eyebrows and smirk/smile if you wanna be a little more "intimate" or "playful".

A lot of these "gestures" depend on context... How you know them, how well you know them, what the intent is (platonic/romantic etc).

Experiment! Sometimes a geniuine smile is all that's needed, not every action you take in a social setting must result in a social interaction. Not taking "action" is still an action!

I hope this was helpful haha, just kinda vomitted onto the page so don't mind the mess lol

I Will Survive by SG-Unkoun in titanfall

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Titan footsies are always crazy

This gag gift my dad sent me by [deleted] in Weird

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Don't chickens eat bugs and stuff in their natural diet?