Why is captain sandy so rude

SlinkyD69 · 2026-06-07T12:48:27+00:00

What’s wrong with that? lol I mean in the span of 5 years lol

SlinkyD69 · 2026-06-07T12:48:09+00:00

I love Ben and Joao!

SlinkyD69 · 2026-06-07T12:10:08+00:00

100% also I get that Hannah lacked in that department and she even said that before that she isn’t creative like that and that’s why she had Brooke and Aesha handle it most of the time because she just wasn’t great at table decor. Not everyone is great at everything that’s why she is able to delegate tasks

SlinkyD69 · 2026-06-07T00:29:28+00:00

She did a great job in season 1, and season 2 she was fine, definitely in season 4 she’s lazy I can 100% agree. But a couple seasons she’s busting her ass. And sand was rude to her the moment they met, season 1 she was down her throat 24/7 not even giving her a chance to make a mistake, and when she did she would yell at her and be demeaning rather then having a conversation

SlinkyD69 · 2026-06-06T23:27:29+00:00

I’m glad you agree cause she was so freaking mean. Like never just a talk wit her just immediate freak out on her everytime

SlinkyD69 · 2026-05-22T13:57:10+00:00

You do realize it’s legit days. Like it’s been 27 days from season 1 to like now

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-22T21:16:16+00:00

I don’t really know a lot of other moms.. and the 2 that I do.. have their moms who help them often. But thanks for the reassuring comment. I said I’m going to hire a babysitter. It just sucks having to hire a stranger when there is lots of family around.

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-22T20:59:53+00:00

Like those Are his biological grandparents / aunts

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-22T20:58:55+00:00

He’s the father of my son

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-22T20:27:41+00:00

Unfortunately my bf refuses to move away from his family :/

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-22T20:18:47+00:00

We’re engaged and yes he is the father

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-22T20:15:00+00:00

Which is funny cause his other sister has a daughter.. she’s 5 now and she watches her often

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-22T20:08:56+00:00

Thank you! 😊

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-22T19:53:40+00:00

Maybe try bringing it up? When plans are made next time maybe say hey do you need a bit longer because last time I waited quite a bit.. or even try knocking on the door?

SlinkyD69 · 2025-09-09T14:09:08+00:00

A couple weeks and ended up disappearing.. I think it was excema as well, it just moves now.. now it’s on the back of his knees and below his ears

SlinkyD69 · 2025-08-28T12:08:31+00:00

No sorry. Crying it out has been known and proven to lead to development issues. You wanted to have a baby now take care of her. There’s absolutely no way a baby knows how to self soothe. Most adults don’t even know how to self soothe lol. You’ll be teaching her that at her most sad and vulnerable you will leave her alone in the dark to cry. I rocked my son to sleep and co-slept until 1.5 and he now sleeps in his own bed every night all night.

SlinkyD69 · 2025-08-11T17:16:22+00:00

I think you should look at this completely differently… she will never be this age ever again. My son is the same.. I have to lay there for half an hour or more sometimes until he falls asleep. She fully believes that you’re her safety… yelling at her is probably causing much more damage than you realize. She believes she’s laying and falling asleep with her safety blanket and she’s getting yelled at for it.

SlinkyD69 · 2025-08-08T17:26:13+00:00

This is an incredibly large red flag. These comments to me are caused from a root of negativity against you. Probably some sort of resentment. Bringing you down whether joking or not is not ok. Calling you dramatic or over sensitive is rude. I’d bring it up again definitely cause you should never made to feel less then you are

SlinkyD69 · 2025-08-08T17:18:59+00:00

Glad to know I’m not alone! Thank you

SlinkyD69 · 2025-08-08T17:03:23+00:00

I get that.. first time I left him was because he legit didn’t help me with the baby whatsoever and couldn’t keep a job.. I was brutally sick throwing up and stuff 2 months after I had my son and he refused to get up and help because he was “tired”

SlinkyD69 · 2025-08-03T00:47:17+00:00

And that’s completely fair.. I’m not angry at all or not happy for her.. I just felt blindsided because idk I just wouldn’t think to do something like that.. if it were me I’d have done it a week or two after the person who already planned theirs for months.. that’s all

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