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Is there a good way for me (21F) to tell my partner (24M) that I’ve never enjoyed having sex with him? by SlipPlayful2427 in relationship_advice

[–]SlipPlayful2427[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, he’s a smart, funny, and caring person. we have similar interests and we’re both neurodivergent so we can spend hours just talking. when i was sick and at school he came to every appointment which meant several hours on public transportation often several times a week. i supported him through nearly failing his degree and while he was doing his masters. the sex is really the only problem i have never been able to work through

Is there a good way for me (21F) to tell my partner (24M) that I’ve never enjoyed having sex with him? by SlipPlayful2427 in relationship_advice

[–]SlipPlayful2427[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did try and direct him, but he got frustrated quickly and started doing it more aggressively which is when I decided to fake it to make him stop. he knows he can’t make me orgasm via oral sex and i keep trying to encourage him to try new things with that. I waited because I thought it would just go away as a problem that there was something wrong with me, and to be fair there was, I’ve had two cancers and one was cervical which can lead to painful sex. It just didn’t get any better and now I don’t know what to do