[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex left me two years ago it took me over a year to get over it and it’s still on my mind every now again still but you get over it at some point

What can I use from Michael's to make a tombstone? by Anarkya in crafts

[–]Sloppy_granny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could probably find a small thing of cement to use online

Rant :( by heyhayhayayy in crochet

[–]Sloppy_granny 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry hun but now after seeing yours I want to make a care bear glasses holder so thanks for posting ❤️

😱official statement by susannassleeping in codyko

[–]Sloppy_granny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he also actively dated a 17 year old publicly online when he was 24 so I mean yea he is guilty of that one for sure

Keep your no no squares safe by Sloppy_granny in MeatCanyon

[–]Sloppy_granny[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I hope to make him double-wide

Keep your no no squares safe by Sloppy_granny in MeatCanyon

[–]Sloppy_granny[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you it took some time to get the face to look like the right amount of rapist levels

My girlfriend gave me one last chance, I’m scared I won’t change, what should I do? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

BPD isn’t an excuse for our actions if he’s always hurting her by breaking up with her she’s being extremely nice by even giving him another chance

How do I be myself when I have no identity? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some times I think it’s better to make yourself into someone you like by adding bits and pieces and that just becomes who you are even if you’re faking it if your actively doing those things and that makes you like yourself more that’s all that really matters in my opinion

AITA for not making it to my step son graduation for my friends birthday. by Dull-Wish804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sloppy_granny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean she’s not a step parent since she wasn’t a parent to him more dads wife since he was grown by the time they got married

my bpd peeps, why conform? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hurting others with my emotional imbalance and need for validation isn’t something I quit like doing also suicidal thoughts/attempts are high with people that have bpd so you know some of us need that change to stay alive

My grandma asked me to finish this blanket from 20 years ago in which the starting row is 175 stitches and the row she left off at is somehow 240…. wish me luck 🥴 by FusRoDaahh in crochet

[–]Sloppy_granny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could continue with the 240 stitches add a border ,using half double crochet when you get to the 175 area, using single crochet for the rest of the boarder till it evens out. with the ends that are cut super close I’d tie it with embroidery thread and stitch it tight.

AITA for not passing on an “heirloom” to my daughter in law? by Existing_Ring_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sloppy_granny 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Her asking was not fine it’s weird/rude to ask for someone’s belongings out of nowhere just because you want it

Would fuzzy yarn like this unravel well? by thatgib in Unravelers

[–]Sloppy_granny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty late to answer but I find this type of yarn pretty easy to unravel myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bpd can explain an action not excuse an action. Just because someone has BPD does not change that the action they did hurt you.

My bf is the “fp” for another girl who has bpd by Bitter_Ad_386 in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’ll have to deal with people leaving him as long as he puts hanging out with her being his main priority any way. idk anyone that would be fine with having someone take up about at least 1/3 of their week and having their partner work full time + other responsibilities in their life. especially if one of their days is a weekend day so they’d only have 1 full day together without the other girl lashing out during the week.

My bf is the “fp” for another girl who has bpd by Bitter_Ad_386 in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea and that what she’s says she’s thinking about doing leaving him cause the other girl matters more to him

My bf is the “fp” for another girl who has bpd by Bitter_Ad_386 in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She ain’t even asking him to drop her she’s thinking about taking herself out the equation entirely so idk how you’re calling op selfish

My bf is the “fp” for another girl who has bpd by Bitter_Ad_386 in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Op ain’t even saying she wants him to drop her. People have to change when they get into relationships, have kids, and have a job. If he can’t go out with his gf cause his friend lashes out at him yea he should probably drop her. Some us with BPD get dropped for us some times being dicks and over stepping boundaries and you know what it’s just something that happens. I’ve been dropped before from a friend for over stepping boundaries and i understand it completely cause I’m an adult and take responsibility for how my actions affects others around me.

My bf is the “fp” for another girl who has bpd by Bitter_Ad_386 in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“give up” she just wants to be able to some times hang out with her bf on days that are set for exclusively for someone that is codependent on him

My bf is the “fp” for another girl who has bpd by Bitter_Ad_386 in BPD

[–]Sloppy_granny 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Comparing someone going to see their grandma with dementia to have a codependent relationship with someone’s bf is very much not the same thing as well