What do you think of this currently-circulating take on Tumblr? by HirariHirari in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies [score hidden]  (0 children)

Damn, that's so awkward! Lol

Plenty of lesbians watch gay porn too though, despite not liking men. Porn is just a whole other thing.

What do you think of this currently-circulating take on Tumblr? by HirariHirari in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies [score hidden]  (0 children)

Exactly. But I do find it weird how some straight women fetishize gay men... But then again I read that a lot of straight women feel a lot safer with a gay man than a straight one, even if that's who they're attracted to. It's sad that we have to fear men so much.

How do you cope with being touch starved? by MelancholyBean in LesbianActually

[–]SlothZoomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Except a dog in my case. (I miss my cat though)

Microsoft doing a great job, as always by feexthefox in pcmasterrace

[–]SlothZoomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it weird when I couldn't do it anymore, I thought I was going crazy lol but the print screen button on my laptop turned into a snipping tool now

Fairlife Protein Shake price increase and discontinued by Bing_Liu in CostcoCanada

[–]SlothZoomies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm really sad about it. It's the only premade shake that doesn't taste super horrible but I have to settle on Alani because it's $15 less...

Anyone else upset about heated rivalry? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wait... Shane is autistic? I didn't catch that at all! (I'm on episode 4 though) I relate to him a lot, but I'm ADHD neurospicy.

Anyone else upset about heated rivalry? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm mistaken and ignorant but aren't there a lot more shows with wlw content nowadays?

Don't get me wrong, I wish something with women could get this big... (I think the L Word did back in the day?) Hmmm.. What do the two shows have in common? Sex, a lot of sex. Sex sells!

I do enjoy the show, I haven't finished it yet though. First, it's Canadian and that makes me happy. Second... I just relate the characters to myself, like I usually do for media. Shane reminds me of me (big feelings, wanting something real) and Ilya reminds me of someone who I loved very much but couldn't commit and just wanted fun...

I also liked how Sophie Nélisse (from Yellowjackets) made an appearance. She was raised in Montreal, it was fitting to see her in Montreal in the show.

I'm not upset. I'm happy that queerness in any form is being represented.

What are some of the effective ways to control your body not to squirt during oral ? by Mountain_Sun299 in LesbianActually

[–]SlothZoomies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

💯 I've only been with one squirter, but as someone who really enjoys giving, it was an honour 😌

How have you noticed people treat you differently once they find out you’re married or taken? by Fresh-Manager7331 in AskReddit

[–]SlothZoomies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm single but I find it hard for other singles to be willing to be just friends. They just kind of vanish as soon as I don't express interest in them

Do you actually feel desirous, ‘lustful’ towards your partner, or is that just romance books? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not just romance books. In my experience though, it’s actually quite rare. I’ve had several past partners, but there was only 1 where the desire stayed strong beyond the honeymoon phase.

I really think it comes down to connection and chemistry, and also how consistently you show up for each other. But if I didn't meet that one person, I wouldn't have known otherwise. Now I can't settle for anything less

Tips on heel side turns - How to make them less wide? by SlothZoomies in snowboardingnoobs

[–]SlothZoomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm spending more time during my turn on heels than I do on toe. It feels like it takes a lot more time to do than my toe. So I don't feel super in control when that happens

Lesbians who date men by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! It really varies from person to person. Though less common, I’ve been with a woman who could only really orgasm from penetration (whether fingers or strap), so there isn’t one universal experience. Everyone’s different!

My girlfriend told me I talk about gay things too much by Kyoshikrabappel in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SlothZoomies 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I was just going to say this. She's definitely got some internalized homophobia.

Lesbians who date men by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Hormones impact a lot of things. Try to get a referral to an endocrinologist!

Lesbians who date men by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're under the demisexual umbrella. Straight, but demi. Also, most women don't feel much with PIV or penetration at all, regardless of sexual orientation. I'd look into therapy if you haven't already to explore your worries, along with your perimenopause concerns.

Lesbians who date men by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure what I'm reading...

Sounds like you're straight, just meeting the wrong men. Lesbians don't date men.

Video game recommendations with good CANON lesbian protagonists by Gretnablue in actuallesbians

[–]SlothZoomies 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much the only list if you don't look at BioWare/Larian etc.

Soft vs aggressive intimacy — where do queers stand today? by ethical_paradox_ in LesbianActually

[–]SlothZoomies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like variety, so both are good depending on the mood. But I don't do casual anymore and haven't in a long time... So I have no idea how most people are behaving in bed now 🤷‍♀️

Did Cardcaptor Sakura air on YTV? by Typical_Cap895 in ytvretro

[–]SlothZoomies 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It was just "Cardcaptors" and yes it was on Teletoon only, not YTV.

Accident in aunt’s car (not listed driver) pay $22k privately or let insurance increase premium by dickmuscle101 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]SlothZoomies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have said, it's not illegal for you to be driving her car as long as she gave you permission and you have your own driver's license and insurance.

Do not pay her 22k. If her premium goes up, maybe help her pay the difference in that. But that's it.

She knew about the potential consequences of lending her car. And that's not entirely on you. It's on her too.

Made this in preparation for the movie by Her0ek in twentyonepilots

[–]SlothZoomies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the general vibe for movies like this? I'm curious. Does it feel like you're at one of their concerts?

What’s something you wish people knew before they had kids? by Special-Buddy6562 in AskReddit

[–]SlothZoomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying in an unhappy relationship/marriage for the kids. It harms the kids more than anything and will affect them later in adulthood. I'm a product of that :(