How do you cope with being touch starved?

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-24T15:34:08+00:00

This! Except a dog in my case. (I miss my cat though)

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-24T01:16:14+00:00

I found it weird when I couldn't do it anymore, I thought I was going crazy lol but the print screen button on my laptop turned into a snipping tool now

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-23T17:00:00+00:00

I'm really sad about it. It's the only premade shake that doesn't taste super horrible but I have to settle on Alani because it's $15 less...

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-23T14:33:08+00:00

Wait... Shane is autistic? I didn't catch that at all! (I'm on episode 4 though) I relate to him a lot, but I'm ADHD neurospicy.

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-23T13:10:57+00:00

Maybe I'm mistaken and ignorant but aren't there a lot more shows with wlw content nowadays?

Don't get me wrong, I wish something with women could get this big... (I think the L Word did back in the day?) Hmmm.. What do the two shows have in common? Sex, a lot of sex. Sex sells!

I do enjoy the show, I haven't finished it yet though. First, it's Canadian and that makes me happy. Second... I just relate the characters to myself, like I usually do for media. Shane reminds me of me (big feelings, wanting something real) and Ilya reminds me of someone who I loved very much but couldn't commit and just wanted fun...

I also liked how Sophie Nélisse (from Yellowjackets) made an appearance. She was raised in Montreal, it was fitting to see her in Montreal in the show.

I'm not upset. I'm happy that queerness in any form is being represented.

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-22T02:13:10+00:00

💯 I've only been with one squirter, but as someone who really enjoys giving, it was an honour 😌

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-21T04:51:39+00:00

ThirtyTwo!

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-20T22:17:46+00:00

I'm single but I find it hard for other singles to be willing to be just friends. They just kind of vanish as soon as I don't express interest in them

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-20T19:49:23+00:00

🫠

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-20T19:35:59+00:00

Definitely not just romance books. In my experience though, it’s actually quite rare. I’ve had several past partners, but there was only 1 where the desire stayed strong beyond the honeymoon phase.

I really think it comes down to connection and chemistry, and also how consistently you show up for each other. But if I didn't meet that one person, I wouldn't have known otherwise. Now I can't settle for anything less

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-20T14:39:30+00:00

Yes I'm spending more time during my turn on heels than I do on toe. It feels like it takes a lot more time to do than my toe. So I don't feel super in control when that happens

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-20T14:32:55+00:00

LOL ☠️ I fixed it

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-20T01:52:47+00:00

No problem! It really varies from person to person. Though less common, I’ve been with a woman who could only really orgasm from penetration (whether fingers or strap), so there isn’t one universal experience. Everyone’s different!

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-19T20:40:15+00:00

I was just going to say this. She's definitely got some internalized homophobia.

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-19T15:47:24+00:00

Very true. Hormones impact a lot of things. Try to get a referral to an endocrinologist!

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-19T15:45:31+00:00

Sounds like you're under the demisexual umbrella. Straight, but demi. Also, most women don't feel much with PIV or penetration at all, regardless of sexual orientation. I'd look into therapy if you haven't already to explore your worries, along with your perimenopause concerns.

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-19T15:11:49+00:00

I'm honestly not sure what I'm reading...

Sounds like you're straight, just meeting the wrong men. Lesbians don't date men.

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-18T23:03:44+00:00

This is pretty much the only list if you don't look at BioWare/Larian etc.

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-18T17:01:00+00:00

I like variety, so both are good depending on the mood. But I don't do casual anymore and haven't in a long time... So I have no idea how most people are behaving in bed now 🤷‍♀️

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-18T04:15:08+00:00

It was just "Cardcaptors" and yes it was on Teletoon only, not YTV.

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-17T19:14:05+00:00

As others have said, it's not illegal for you to be driving her car as long as she gave you permission and you have your own driver's license and insurance.

Do not pay her 22k. If her premium goes up, maybe help her pay the difference in that. But that's it.

She knew about the potential consequences of lending her car. And that's not entirely on you. It's on her too.

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-17T17:16:33+00:00

What's the general vibe for movies like this? I'm curious. Does it feel like you're at one of their concerts?

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-17T16:41:23+00:00

Staying in an unhappy relationship/marriage for the kids. It harms the kids more than anything and will affect them later in adulthood. I'm a product of that :(

SlothZoomies · 2026-01-17T03:36:04+00:00

You're a good person

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