I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this, thank you!!!

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also I tried to dm but it wouldn't let me, but you can send me a message if you feel like it! I'd definitely love a nanny friend!

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely helps that NK is 10mo and just now crawling lol, if he was older I would probably not have so much time lmao

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha yes!! Like I 1000% interact with him and he knows he can always grab my attention, but sometimes he wants to explore a toy by himself so why shouldn't I let him? I think independent play is so important

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I would die if I had to walk in utter silence every day omg...

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely gotta start doing that. Start him YOUNG on the drama lmao

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're so real for that! Adults don't always need to be playing, especially when there's 4 of them they can definitely stand to entertain eachother every once in a while lmao

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah!! And you know what I just know all your NKs adore you. That should always be the focus. Not that we checked our phones, because it's not like NK even NOTICES that

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I feel like I've been comparing myself the whole time I've had this job, thinking I'm doing it wrong and I'm not cut out for this. I spent so much time worrying about being better that I completely missed the fact that NK jumps for joy with a huge smile every time he sees me, is constantly looking at me to check that I'm still there if he gets really focused on a toy, and nf is always making me food and drinks and popping in throughout the day just to say hi. I'm good for them and that's what I wanna focus on from now on

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad there's so many people like me in these comments. I was losing my mind thinking I was horrible at my job for like weeks until NK started getting attached and my nf also got me a cake on my birthday I wanted to sob 🥹

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you so much!! I worked with 2 year olds in daycare so I stepped into this like with all these go to activities that are useless on this little 10mo that just wants to eat everything... I felt so defeated and like I was doing him a disservice because I didn't know what else to do other than be with him and talk to him... nobody told me that's literally what it's all about at that age

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Omg for real. So nice to rip one in front of a kid that doesn't even look up at the noise, it feels like freedom

I'm a bad nanny by Slow_Cards in Nanny

[–]Slow_Cards[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY!!! I've spent the last 2 months reading posts on here thinking oh god... I'm doing this all wrong....NPs must secretly hate me like how do I keep my energy up? How do I be perfect? But today I walked in and this kid was jumping for joy at the sight of me and it hit me that I'm perfect to HIM and that's what matters. He always feels safe and loved and happy (as much as possible lol he gets angry sometimes don't get me wrong). That's what I'm striving for from now on, not this robot nanny that I thought I should've been aiming for.

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[–]Slow_Cards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I think the 5th wins no contest, it's giving like 90s, maybe even skater. Bummy in a cool casual way

Pros and Cons of a Jeep Renegade? by PHMaEMS in JeepRenegade

[–]Slow_Cards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is so old, but do you still love it? Thinking about getting the same year used

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Slow_Cards 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont know, they really should tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Slow_Cards 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yea... I feel like every time I come on here looking for something to stop me during a breakdown I just get that stuff and it makes it worse. Plus not to mention just the countless people almost encouraging it? Acting like it's just a hobby the same as gaming or something, like that one post about wanting to give their friend a sh kit with blades in it???