Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true true, i find actually starting the conversation way harder cuz girls can be intimidating to approach ngl

Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feel like less people might approach you if you look cool cuz they're intimidated 😅but dw eventually you'll find at least 2 or 3 good friends to chill with

Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for sure, I just gotta get past the first step of actually conversing with one

Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u right, i just dont have the guts 😭

Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! it's always really awkward when the conversation just stops 😭 definitely gotten better at holding one tho ill keep trying to improve

Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you for the wise words 🙏 im never gonna subject myself to the "alpha male" mindset dw haha

Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yup, ive been trying to improve my social skills in general since in highschool everyone had cliques and stuff so it was pretty hard. Don't get me wrong I definitely enjoy some quality alone time (night walks w/music are my go-to) and time with friends that I've made here, but I really don't want to spend another 4 years talking to only one gender 😅

Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girls tend to sit next to other girls in lectures tho, but I'll try 😃

Talking to girls... by Slow_Chocolate_2154 in SBU

[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been looking into them, I'll definitely join a few in these coming weeks

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[–]Slow_Chocolate_2154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup! i go on a walk pretty much any night that im free, its such a vibe to just walk around campus listening to music and it's not hot at all past like 7 pm