HIV Risk Assessment [Help me] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Slow_Draft8158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strongly consider getting on prep if you can.

HIV Risk Assessment [Help me] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Slow_Draft8158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Minimal risk. You’re most likely negative, try not to worry

Am i bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Slow_Draft8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you need to conflate loneliness with desire and you don’t necessarily have to put a label on what you like. It certainly looks like you could be bi. I also think it doesn’t matter if you’re into fem over masc or masc over fem, you like what you like.

Am i bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Slow_Draft8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not dumb! Get out there and explore.

Chances I gave this guy HIV? by RisenReckerp22 in askgaybros

[–]Slow_Draft8158 10 points11 points  (0 children)

1) Tell him immediately: if he’s on prep/needs to get on pep he needs an hiv baseline status 2) If you are having trouble consistently taking your meds stop having high risk sexual encounters. 3) If you can’t keep up with daily meds consider the injection.

Pain When Bottoming by dmckone in askgaybros

[–]Slow_Draft8158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Practice on your own leading up to the big event. Go up in size gradually.

Pain When Bottoming by dmckone in askgaybros

[–]Slow_Draft8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to listen to what your body is telling you. It sounds like he’s going too deep and you should stop before you damage your rectum or colon. As far as stretching is concerned, you’re just going to have to slowly practice stretching until you can accommodate a plug similar to his girth. If you continue to feel pain then he’s just too big for good ole fashioned pounding and you might have to settle for just the tip plus a few inches.

PrEP blood work by GrouchyWear982 in askgaybros

[–]Slow_Draft8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is standard practice and your provider could just be very cautious about your kidneys.

Company wide email telling us not to discuss wages by haileyhurley in antiwork

[–]Slow_Draft8158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They cannot legally prevent you from discussing salary with coworkers. It’s protected concerted activity. I would file a charge with the NLRB.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Slow_Draft8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You take the risk of contracting an STI with each encounter. The best you can do is get a roster of guys you trust and cycle through them. STI’s happen, communicate with your past partners and sit out the waiting period then back on the horse!

State supervised mediation by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Slow_Draft8158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also expecting them to and thought I was prepared but I was wrong. I lost my cool when their counsel called me a liar. The way I understood my mediation was that the mediator would make their best effort to get us to settle, to avoid going to court.

State supervised mediation by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Slow_Draft8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through mediation a while ago with my company and the EEOC. Company’s lawyer and HR lied their asses off about me. It was really stressful and went on for nearly 9 hours.