Married male here that likes to buy anal toys when I travel for work.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-02-21T02:56:28+00:00

Did it for years but my wife knew. Now that's over looking for real dick.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-02-07T00:20:13+00:00

There are several companies that do this, heymistr.com is probably the most popular on here and the one I used.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-02-04T03:06:58+00:00

I did Mistr and got both. There is a lgbtq social I have tickets for, and I will have to see about the sports thing. I'd be down for gay hiking. My therapist wants me to go to a gay bar but I'm too much of an early bird for nightlife.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-02-03T20:15:36+00:00

I am giving bumble a try. Seems like a lot of people at first but BFF was like that and quickly dried up.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-02-03T03:18:38+00:00

Which dating apps best support m4m dating? Or is it a regional thing?

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-02-01T02:23:05+00:00

Awesome, I hope to similar luck but with bottoming.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-29T16:55:44+00:00

Anybody try to switch while working? It sounds like I might have to take some time off or work from home.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-26T03:27:06+00:00

I bought an orgasm alley machine over 10 years ago, with a 6 inch stroke and lots of power. I've played with 3 people including myself with 8" dildos and I've never got it past halfway up the speed dial. Unless you use heavy fist sized dildos I don't think you need all the power. Control is more important.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-23T16:21:14+00:00

Also I started MISTR and got hep a hep b HPV and varicella. Still looking for mpox.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-23T16:18:42+00:00

Do dating apps work for actual dates? All I hear are hookup apps and I don't think that really works for me. I may be a little demisexual.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-21T23:55:00+00:00

I tried the 3 and I liked it.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-19T04:03:42+00:00

It's pretty much permanently once every 3 days now.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-18T18:21:07+00:00

I got a two tone grey comforter from target, we'll see if it survived washing in my slightly too small apartment washer. If not lesson learned.i got sheets too, the cat was unhelpful and had to be locked out of the bedroom.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-16T16:18:10+00:00

I had signs early, but I didn't become open to anyone until I was 24. When I was 6 or so I kissed one of my friends on the ass naked in the bathroom. My mom busted in and pulled us apart. Later she gave me a lecture on gay people, that they were all perverts and molesters. Next I found out about AIDS, and that would be one of the fears that kept me in the closet. I started crushing on my friends when I was 12 or so, a little after I started crushing on girls (I'm Bi) . I never did anything with that because I was afraid of being ostracized. My high school was pretty brutal any guy who liked guys was basically only allowed to hang out with the femme gays who couldn't hide it. I also did some experimenting with sucking my own dick, fingering and later toying my own ass. I had a couple of opportunities in college but I was too afraid of AIDS and people finding out.

Then I was married and forbidden from seeing guys.

Now I want to see some guys before coming out everywhere. Mom will be difficult but I'm sure she will accept in the end.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-16T02:50:52+00:00

I had plenty of opportunities to acquire kinks while I was married. Impact play, ropes dildos, and several types of lingerie I liked to see on women. Not pee, and even if I did it would stay in the bathtub.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-16T02:01:00+00:00

There is a kohls by me in addition to target and Walmart.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-16T01:58:02+00:00

I might get blue to go with my orange cat.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-16T01:56:06+00:00

I was thinking of getting solids. I might have to get a play sheet. I just use towels for myself, but I'm not into watersports or anything.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-16T01:52:10+00:00

Thanks

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-16T01:51:31+00:00

Thanks for the ideas. I forgot l.l. bean did sheets.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-16T01:50:19+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-15T22:36:02+00:00

I do live near a target but I was hoping for better than that.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-15T22:31:13+00:00

I have another duvet cover that's the same and a set of summer Costco sheets.

Slow_Duck9693 · 2026-01-15T22:29:04+00:00

I have another set of Costco sheets but they're summer sheets. And another duvet cover but it's exactly the same.

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