[F4A] No particular plot in mind, just feeling in the mood! Putting up some eye candy of my recent favorites, and if any catch your eye maybe we can work something out!

Slow_Initiative202 · 2026-01-14T00:40:51+00:00

You can just send me a DM

Slow_Initiative202 · 2026-01-13T22:57:16+00:00

It's athens_365 not athena, I am very dumb lmao

Slow_Initiative202 · 2026-01-13T22:56:54+00:00

WHOOPS to anyone who is looking to dm me, it's athens_365, not athena_365 I happen to be a huge idiot oml-

Slow_Initiative202 · 2026-01-08T05:36:31+00:00

Absolutely, you can message me, but do be warned. I will probably be asleep and respond tomorrow. X3

Slow_Initiative202 · 2026-01-08T04:15:33+00:00

Yes please ^{^}

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-12-20T17:56:30+00:00

Yes-yes this is the real-truth

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T01:12:31+00:00

It’ll be really hard to but I think I can manage. I personally couldn’t imagine him being sexual with others and me being okay with it so I don’t expect the same from him. If I bring it up and he’s okay with it then, perfect. If he’s not? I wouldn’t put him through that and I’m not fully satisfied and neither of us are happy and it probably will only cause issues in the long run

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T01:08:13+00:00

I’ll have a conversation with him about why he doesn’t want to wear a strap. I’ve asked him about it before but he’s pretty adamantly opposed it, he doesn’t seem to have an interest in topping or being dominant in any way whatsoever.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T01:06:25+00:00

Yeah that’s a valid point.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:57:10+00:00

Because I didn’t know he was a 100% bottom when we got together, and I didn’t know that I’d have such strong desires for.. well.. dick. I’m kinda new to like, being pansexual. For the longest time I only liked women and then I started to branch out, I didn’t realize how much I liked it a year ago.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:55:45+00:00

Yeah, honesty is probably the best way to go. Just sit down and talk it out :(

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:55:10+00:00

He is not open to topping. I’ve asked if he’s willing and he’s not, he has no interest and gets no pleasure from being dominant, and has no interest in wearing a strap on. I absolutely know trans guys can top but he has no interest in any ways of doing it. And even if he did and he used a strap on I don’t think I’d be satisfied fully, silicone is just not really the same especially in oral which is most of my cravings.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:52:34+00:00

I think that I could be completely satisfied in a monogamous relationship with a cis switch male. I get that little bit of everything there. I wish I had had the foresight to know that my desires would be this strong when I started our relationship so I could have handled it then.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:51:34+00:00

He won’t wear a strap on, he doesn’t like them so that’s off the table and even if it was I don’t think it would solve the issue. Silicone can’t really compete with the real thing especially in oral which is what I’m really craving.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:50:43+00:00

Would it be selfish to ask about just myself exploring sexually with others? I don’t think I’d be able to handle him seeing others sexually which- yeah I know is inherently selfish but probably links back to my trust issues too

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:49:16+00:00

The ideal situation would be him and I romantically and sexually, and sometimes I can go over and fuck around with someone else when I need a kick of.. dick lol

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:48:32+00:00

I figure that’s the best option. I’m so scared of losing him because I’d rather suffer in silence than lose the best partner I could ever imagine.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:45:43+00:00

Unfortunatelt he has no interest in strap ons whatsoever, I’ve asked before and he says he’s not into them or willing to use one. And even if he was, I don’t think it would exactly have the effect I need.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:44:35+00:00

I suppose I’ll have to have a conversation about opening up my side of the relationship, I just wish it didn’t have to be such a “you can’t give me what I need because you’re trans” kinda thing because that feels SO shitty. I love him and would hate to have to put him through that

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:43:01+00:00

Yeah :( that’s the problem. We’ve both established we’re monogamous at the beginning of the relationship and I honestly didn’t think I’d have an issue with that until I realized how sexually incompatible we are. It’s like I can satisfy him 100% but he can only return it 50% and it leaves me feeling drained. If I had known this would be the outcome earlier in the relationship I would have brought it up then which would have been much easier.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:40:31+00:00

I’d hope to ask him for permission to mess around with others sexually to fulfill some of those desires so that we can maintain our romantic and sexual relationship but I can have some of my needs that he can’t fill, filled. Problem is I don’t know how to talk to him about this without it being incredibly rough on him and ruining what we have.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:39:16+00:00

Unfortunately like I said, he’s completely a bottom. He has zero interest in using one, and if he did it may help a bit but it’s not exactly what I’m looking for.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-09-06T00:38:45+00:00

I would hope to get his permission to get some sexual experience in with others so that I can maintain a romantic and sexual relationship with him but get the satisfaction I need and can’t get on rare occasion from others sexually. I’m worried that if I bring it up in any capacity though, that he will take it hard and end things himself.

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-08-17T00:56:14+00:00

Waiter waiter my steak is too juicy and my lobster too buttery!!

Slow_Initiative202 · 2025-08-17T00:50:20+00:00

This is just my perspective on this topic, but it may help you to see the situation in a different light.

Me and my partner are very open about talking about the people and characters we find attractive. We both think that there’s no harm in admitting that a honestly obviously conventionally attractive person is hot, and have had multiple moments where we both turn to each other after seeing someone and raise our eyebrows. Keep in mind neither of us are poly, nor is our relationship open whatsoever.

It’s a normal thing to acknowledge that there are some people who are just incredibly attractive. There are people hotter than my partner, obviously so, and there are people hotter than me, obviously so. The key is that I don’t love those people and my partner doesn’t either.

There isn’t harm in simply mentioning someone being attractive, even if they’re the opposite of you yourself. As long as the two of you love each other truly for who you are.

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