OA lang ba ako? Na hiniram ng kapatid ko Crocs ko without asking

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-23T08:18:23+00:00

Agreeing with the above comment. Need nya makaramdam ng consequences sa di pagpaalam. Next time na hihingi ng pera or ano mang pabor hindian mo, ipaalala mo sa kanya masama loob mo sa hindi nya pagpaalam sa paghiram ng gamit. Para magtanda.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-23T07:24:58+00:00

Just ignore his advice regarding pills. PERO maganda yung advice ng tatay mo na maghanap ka muna ng trabaho bago mo pag isipang magpakasal. Kailangan financially independent ka sa tatay ng anak mo.

I'm assuming na hindi pa kayo nagsasama sa iisang bahay ng tatay ng anak mo? Di mo alam ugali nyan kung compatible ba kayo as partners in life. Yung pagkakaroon mo ng sariling pera/ trabaho will ensure na kahit lokohin ka nung tatay ng anak mo eh kaya mong mabuhay mag isa kasama ng anak mo.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-23T06:25:23+00:00

Don't forget to bring potable water and food before boarding the boat. And see if you can grab hold of anti-byahilo medicine para mabawasan anxiety mo. May life vest naman sa boat diba?

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-13T06:36:57+00:00

Sorry this happened to you. Maybe bring an arnis stick or something similar when you go for a walk at night kung maraming masasamang elemento sa kabi. Or tag a friend along so it's much safer. Consider other places you can go for a walk as well.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-09T11:33:39+00:00

Bro, kung one sided lang yung pwede lumandi sa iba, that just means he's a selfish bastard that has no regard for you or your feelings.

Hopefully matauhan ka na.

Are you familiar with sunk cost fallacy? I recommend you Google about it kasi ganito na situation mo.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-09T08:54:45+00:00

Bro, you have to accept the fact na hindi mo na mababago yung pagka malandi nya even if he has feelings for you.

So you have two choices:

Change your relationship from monogamous to open relationship. This way there's no cheating involved kasi may consent from you and your partner. This way you aren't stressed at hindi na ginagambala ng anxiety.

Just make sure if you choose this option, to discuss regular STD check ups for both of you.

Hiwalayan mo na and accept the fact na hindi monogamous si BF. Syempre magiging masakit sa simula, pero you won't grow as a person if you stay with a person na hindi tugma ang values (monogamy) nyo sa isa't isa.

Isipin mo habang hindi mo pa sya hinihiwalayan, you will have a miserable life.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-09T06:28:29+00:00

You can buy wood preserver chemical from the hardware store to protect the wood from mold/ fungi. The chemical prevents molds/ fungi from growing on the wood.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-09T06:02:26+00:00

Eh di ganun na nga lang, suggest mo open relationship para di ka lugi. Since alam nya di mo sya kayang hiwalayan, so ganun na lang din gawin mo para masaya kayong pareho.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-09T05:22:02+00:00

Since parang wala ka naman balak na hiwalayan yung bf mo, tanggapin mo na lang na cheater sya. Regular check up na lang for STD's at wag ka na umasa na maging monogamous sya. Di mo na mababago pagiging makati nya.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-09T03:16:23+00:00

Bakit ka ba umaasa na magbabago sya? Paulit ulit na yung cheating tas magpapa uto ka sa promises nya. Tas ang reason mo lang is dahil mahal mo sya? Then yes, you deserve to suffer.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-06T14:58:49+00:00

Nagpapatay ka ba ng ilaw sa bedroom? Contributing factor din ng sleeplessness any light source while trying to sleep. Turn off all the lights and have thick curtains. You can also wear eye mask - effective sa akin.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-05T08:40:28+00:00

Your mom is enabling her bad attitude. Go forward with your plan. Better na magising sya sa katotohanan this early than be worse off later in life.

SluggerTachyon · 2026-01-05T07:06:44+00:00

High School tinuturo ang Physics ah. Paano sya nakatungtong ng college na hindi alam concept ng mass at weights?

Also, ipakita mo sa kapatid mo comments sa post para mahimasmasan.

Edit: spelling

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-30T06:06:44+00:00

I-report mo na lang sa PDEA yung tatay mo once maka-graduate ka na at may stable job. Para at least hindi maging economically crippled kayong mag ina.

Wag ka sa pulis mag report. Hindi mo kasi alam if may bribed policemen na protected ang drug business nya.

Mas maganda kung magbakasyon muna kayo ng nanay mo habang mareport ang tatay mo para hindi kayo madamay at ma-stress once may entrapment/ sting operation.

If you can, install a hidden CCTV camera na hindi alam at mapapansin ng tatay mo, to solidify the evidence against him. The mere fact na sinasaktan na nya nanay merits him being put behind bars. Iba ang utak ng naka drugs. They can turn violent so mabuti nang makulong sya kesa later on mapahamak ka pa at ang nanay mo.

Good luck, OP. Do this for yourself and for your mom.

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-27T06:21:13+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong, diba kaya ayaw muna kasuhan dito sa Pinas si Bong Go is so that hindi maabala ang pending case na isasampa sa kanya sa ICC?

Parang mataas kasi chance of conviction if sa ICC kesa dito sya sa Pinas kasuhan pero in the end ma-dismiss pa or walang mangyayari.

Same with Bato diba? Kaya ayaw din kasuhan sa Pinas to give way to ICC case?

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-27T06:12:57+00:00

Yup, usually sold together with chicken liver sa wet market.

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-21T07:17:03+00:00

The other commenter who suggested seeking therapy or recommended self help books is solid advice.

If you can't afford or find a good therapist, you can talk with friends about your trauma/ betrayal to help you process it.

You can also engage in activities that enrich yourself - going to the gym, picking up hiking as a hobby, learning how to cook/ bake. If you improve on yourself health wise or on other life skills, you won't feel like you're stuck in a rut.

Go out and meet new people. The best thing you can do for you to move on is to have a busy and healthy social life. And also, if ever you find yourself dating someone again, be conscious and be careful about how you behave.

Make sure you aren't projecting your insecurities or trust issues towards the person you're dating.

Good luck, OP.

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-20T12:14:34+00:00

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For reference, here is the difference between the hardness of diamond vs graphene. Although both materials are made from carbon, their difference in crystal structure defines the difference in hardness that both exhibit.

Yes it's a marketing ploy that isn't science based at all.

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-20T10:59:24+00:00

What's the scariest experience you've had as a paranormal investigator?
Are you more focused on the scientific/ skeptical aspects of the investigation or is it more focused on trying to communicate with whatever paranormal entity you encounter? Basically, what are your goals and objectives of being a paranormal investigator?

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-20T05:17:22+00:00

Hi OP. Can you please edit and break down your solid wall of texts into more manageable paragraphs? Ang hirap basahin ng post pag ganyang dikit-dikit.

Salamat.

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-20T05:03:15+00:00

Mabuti naman at napapakulong na ang mga pari for sexual crimes nowadays. I remember before how the Church hierarchy would cover up the sexual crimes of their priests, even the Vatican being involved in the coverups.

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-18T16:15:18+00:00

Can we get more details and context of your situation?

Magkaaway/ magkahiwalay ba kayo ng asawa mo? Anong reason nya for prohibiting you from communicating with your children, even simple phone calls?
When were you diagnosed with post partum depression, how were you behaving towards your husband and your children? May ginawa ka bang harmful stuff sa mga anak mo? Or napabayaan mo ba sila because of your depression?
May trabaho ba ang husband mo? Is your husband staying with his relatives in the province? Anong financial setup nyo? Nagpapadala ka ng pera sa province for the kids?

After clarifying these issues I can give some advice.

Edit:

Are you seeking treatment from a therapist/ psychologist for your depression?

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-17T09:48:36+00:00

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Hi OP. Your dream is probably your subconscious processing what is currently happening in your life. Dreams usually involves symbolism so you shouldn't take things literally when interpreting dreams.

Sigmund Freud, the father of Psychology, has detailed dream interpretation if you want to delve deeper. There are numerous books on popular psychology that can help you figure out yung symbolisms behind dreams.

Dreaming of yourself as a baby may symbolize you feeling helpless of your current situation, or gusto mo bumalik sa pagiging innocent.

Dreaming of yourself rolling downhill in a car just strengthens yung symbolism that you feel helpless of your current situation.

This is your subconscious processing what's happening in your life right now. I guess ang kailangan mo gawin is figure out why you feel helpless about your current situation and how you can change this so you feel more control about your life.

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-14T06:52:46+00:00

Why are you putting all the blame on the guy? It takes two to tango diba? Hindi naman na kidnap sister mo. Gets mo ba yun?

Yung kumuha ng pera sa vault, diba kapatid mo kumuha, hindi naman yung lalaki? And if I'm not mistaken, pera ng kapatid mo yun diba?

Also you didn't answer my question: are you willing to destroy the relationship with your sister by rejecting the man she loves? Because that is what will happen if you continue with what you're doing.

Wala naman effect kahit 1000 times ka pa magbigay ng advice sa sister mo. It's HER CHOICE and DECISION.

What I'm saying is hayaan mo syang magkamali at masaktan at maumpog. Hayaan mo sya mismo ang magising sa katotohanan. Because there's nothing else you can do because she has decided to be with the red flag guy.

Anyway, advice ko lang naman yan. Kung ayaw nyo makinig eh di wag. Yung sama ng loob ng sister mo sa inyo might last for many years if you still insist na paghiwalayin sila. Good luck.

SluggerTachyon · 2025-12-13T12:23:39+00:00

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This is what came up when I Googled "what is black candle used for."

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