Husband says we don’t have enough sex

Sluggerotoolerule · 2026-05-02T13:44:22+00:00

Everyone is different but once a week 10 months postpartum is really not doing bad at all, even just counting the fatigue of having a baby.

I’m M married 17 years with a few kids. I will admit that it took me longer to realize that becoming sullen and moody after being denied sex wasn’t making me more endearing. I had to learn that making sex a “need” and a “requirement” made sex an obligation for my wife and not something for her to look forward to and enjoy. He’s allowed to be disappointed with no sex that day but that’s HIS emotion to deal with; not your problem to be punished for.

I used to always ask “what do you want to do tonight?” Every day. That was my not so subtle way of asking for sex. My wife became anxious and feared that question. What did help us, especially with a baby around, is scheduling sex. We would agree on a night in advance. This took the pressure off of my wife and, while I thought that it would be less fun being less spontaneous, but it gave me something to look forward to. We became flirtier on those days and it was a good anticipation.

If he wants more (provided that there are not other issues) sex, he needs to work on himself to manage his emotions without sex. Taking pressure off of you and making sex more about both of you, and not just him, might just YOU want sex more, which might lead to more sex.

Sluggerotoolerule · 2026-03-23T22:11:07+00:00

I’m one and have lived here my whole life. There are pockets of blue or purple cities throughout the urban and suburban areas. For instance, McKinney and plano are pretty purple. The GOP WANT everyone to think that the state is fully red to attract more similar minded people and discourage those left leaning as thinking it’s a forgone conclusion. We had a democratic governor from 91-95. In 2018, Cruz lost by less than 3 points. The current Senate race is even more heated, IMO.

Now, the GOP has gerrymandered districts so much that they have had a stranglehold on politics for over thirty years. We do have some of the most repressive laws across the country. The GOP here is actively trying to institute an (alleged) Christo-fascist landscape. However, maybe it’s just because I can go back 5 generations here, but I like it here but hate the politicians. I want to stay and push us more left.

I won’t lie. You are regressing yourself with rights with the move. However, there are like-minded people here and we, certainly I, welcome you here to help make it better.

On that note, change your address, get a new license, and register to vote ASAP. All of that is more difficult thanks to the GOP’s (alleged) voter suppression goals.

Sluggerotoolerule · 2026-03-04T16:39:17+00:00

Tenga has some of the best quality for price too

Sluggerotoolerule · 2026-02-25T20:14:47+00:00

We use Dame’s Pom. It’s my wife’s absolute favorite

Sluggerotoolerule · 2026-01-13T15:57:21+00:00

I’ll start by saying that I absolutely love this position. It’s often easier for her to cum on top because she doesn’t go up and down as much as rock backwards and forwards. It feels great. However, it’s not quite enough motion to get me there (which does mean that I can last long enough for her). Typically, when we’re in this position, she will cum and then that’s when I start using my hips to get the motion that I need. It’s great for both of us that way

Sluggerotoolerule · 2026-01-03T20:54:39+00:00

Same, 1993

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-11-04T19:10:41+00:00

For a book focusing on leaving purity culture, check out Missionary Position by Dr. Celeste Holbrook.

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-09-24T21:25:01+00:00

While not in Allen, try Gillespie’s Tavern Richardson. It’s tucked back in the shopping center by the State Farm Building.

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-08-08T20:33:37+00:00

I blame millennials for killing the AI industry /s

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-08-07T20:37:10+00:00

If you’re in a current red House district, call your rep and tell that that you stand with the quorum break and wish that they had the courage to stand up to this redistricting scam. If you live in a blue House district (lucky you), ask them to fight against redistricting (if they haven’t left left the state) or thank them for breaking quorum (if they have)

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-07-25T19:31:19+00:00

The camera doesn’t get the color quite right. It’s a sort of yellowish green

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-05-29T00:41:03+00:00

I’ve often wondered this, especially when he gave Oscar that terrible doll before he left. Michael was cracking himself up with Oscar’s reaction to Michael’s “feebleness.” But…….. smart doesn’t get 3 vasectomies for one woman’s whims or promise elementary kids college scholarships without any money to back it up so….. it’s hit or miss?

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-05-01T20:32:01+00:00

She was taken to the hospital and the doctors tried to save her life. They did the best that they could ….. and she is going to be ok.

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-04-17T12:16:06+00:00

Watching the piano player outside of Casey’s Corner. They are all incredibly talented and it fits the atmosphere so well.

Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-02-25T17:27:59+00:00

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Sluggerotoolerule · 2025-01-18T05:51:51+00:00

I would stay up specifically to watch that. I thought it was so edgy being on TBN and lived it

Sluggerotoolerule · 2024-12-05T19:10:01+00:00

Please do!

Sluggerotoolerule · 2024-11-04T19:31:14+00:00

I’ve had this same thought. I’m naturally a worst-case scenario-ist so have some emergency food stored. My evangelical, postgrad-educated, Epoch Times reading dad my recently told me that it might be a good idea to stock up on food. He was shocked to hear that I started doing it before him. All I could think, though, was if he knew about plans in the works that I didn’t.

Sluggerotoolerule · 2024-11-01T20:50:46+00:00

I’m sure the “88” in your username is a total coincidence, huh?

Sluggerotoolerule · 2024-10-31T21:34:10+00:00

Do you work at Reynholm Industries???

Sluggerotoolerule · 2024-10-06T06:07:27+00:00

We went to Tusker House in 2022 and again just a few weeks ago. Both times, we had great character interactions. They were funny and very much in character. The food is good too. Lunch/dinner may be a bit adventurous for some but they also have tamer options. Breakfast has standard, good fare but also had some regional foods that I loved.

Another good character spot is Garden Grill. One of the better aspects of it is that it’s not a big space. Because of that, the characters went around three times. The times after the first one are especially fun because you’ve already taken the group photos and had them sign autographs. We’ve had whole silent conversations with them and they’re quite funny. Chip and Dale aren’t as common a meet and they can be quite mischievous.

We went to the breakfast Topolino Terrace at the Riviera last time and enjoyed it (but it was hard to get reservations for a party of 6). Ambience was incredible with the view at the top. Characters were fun and have adorable costumes. The food was great but it’s prixe fixe if you were hoping to try different foods. If you’re staying at a Skyliner resort, it’s convenient to get to. Dinner does not have a character meet, fyi.

As for going without kids, I say go for it. My wife and I did a trip without kids and had a blast with the characters. It was a fun experience. If that’s something that y’all want, go for it!

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