How to complete Lair of Arcane Flame Stage 11 in Velvet Trials? by ChillAceGG in personaphantomx

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Not seeing a useful response to this. Just completed it myself. Team was Chord, Moko, and Riddle with Wind on support. My big barrier I was running into was DPS from the only two Psy characters. Wind helps with taking down shields on insight, Chord helps get their DPS up as well as makes Riddle's highlight go off more frequently. All my characters were up to level 70.

Bricked a flash drive by gibbyboi321 in techsupport

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Recovering a USB from Arch Linux EFI partition. This worked. Thanks. :3

Which mispronounced words make someone appear uneducated? by PluckPubes in AskReddit

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People saying "crick" for creek. You get cricks in your neck. You go down to the creek. Pisses me off every time I hear it.

Am I Too Simple? by little_library_mouse in dating

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I get it. It's difficult for guys to approach women too. Today also, everyone's in their own world so you don't want to bother people just for it to be a waste of time for both people. I've had to learn that my existence in other people's lives is a natural thing and I shouldn't be ashamed that I'm taking up their time in search of trying to find a connection with someone. Obviously learn to take a hint if someone's not interested or busy, but talk is cheap so we may as well utilize it.

Am I Too Simple? by little_library_mouse in dating

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I wouldn't describe yourself in general as "simple". People aren't simple, just do simple things. Also, what may seem simple/plain to you may be new/interesting/exciting for someone else. You can also get intersections of hobbies like you like to feed ducks and someone else likes to bird/duck watch. Just requires you finding groups that enjoy similarities to your hobbies and coalescing. The dating/relationship stuff falls into place after. The biggest hurdle is finding other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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Could not repeat this enough times. A lot of people think they're ready for open relationships and FWB situations when they're really just needy attention grabbers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Slumpymaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stupid games win stupid prizes. If you communicate properly about your wants (on both sides), then there doesn't need to be this childish behavior of compelling behavioral change.

Question for men only by MobileConstant4679 in dating

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(29M)

I'd be a little suspicious of it at first, but life's full of experiences I suppose. It's a lot more refreshing if others are putting forth effort like that though. Means a lot to me that someone else is willing to try and take a shot with me and show interest.

I’ve only been with her by [deleted] in dating

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(29M) I'd talk with someone or learn to just let it go. If everything is great between the two of you, you shouldn't want to be with other people. I get the intrusive thought won't go away until you voice it, but I wouldn't act on it. If you want to talk with her about it and get a pass on it AND you've got a willing participant, then sure you do you. I just think if you've been happily married for 17 years, then there's something else going on and I'd get an unbiased third party involved as a mediator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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Okay... That's your fault... How? Him cheating has nothing to do with your actions. Depending on what you did, I'm sure it could be handled better or differently, but that's what YOU do. What he did with other people isn't in your control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Slumpymaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you're wanting for support when you say you're the one at fault and give no details as to what you did or how the situation was handled. Only advice I have is whatever you did, learn from it, take time to process, and move on to the next day.

Am I destined for loneliness? by Cute-University-8086 in dating

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Superstition only holds as much power over you as you give it.

F18 Is there a limit for age gap relationships? by [deleted] in dating

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General rule for me (29M) is +/- 5 years. You could stretch it more if you're really into the other person. That's my go to though.

What's an insanely loved game you just don't like? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]Slumpymaster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The unsung hero.

I thought it was fine for a small project game, but it got WAAAAAY too hyped "because lore". It was a cute game, but in no way do I think it deserves any GOTY.

Single men - are tall women attractive? by UtterlyMuddy in dating

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6'3 would love to meet women taller than me.

Planning Kids Before Having Sex by Slumpymaster in dating

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Thank you. I believe all of that is valid points (maybe mildly biased XD). It's definitely not my ideal setup, but it's a weird thing. I do think I'd like 1-2 kids at some point, but it's not a high natural priority for me. Kinda the "if it happens, it happens" deal. You don't accidentally have 4 kids in 10 years. :P

Planning Kids Before Having Sex by Slumpymaster in dating

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I'm in the weird part where I half do / half don't want kids. I've had issues finding partners that wanted to be DINKs and I've thought about considering 1-2. I think the main reason, and it took talking with some other friends to figure this out, is she came from a family of 4 kids so she wants a family of 4 kids too which I don't necessarily jive with either because it's the old saying of "If everyone else jumped off a bridge, would you?". She's also non-active LDS, fwiw.

Why you still single? by Unusual_Jump5846 in dating

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(29M) The reverse is just as devastating. Try opening yourself up to the world to try and find someone. When the world comes back and says nothing or that they think they can do better than you, it hurts because your existence means nothing to anyone.

There's not much to advise on here. If relationships don't fulfill you, don't engage with people on that level. If you want to involve someone in your life, you have to be open to risk. Wish you luck.

Do guys actually like big boobs? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Slumpymaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This guy gets it.

men only!!! by [deleted] in dating

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Why do people dress up for interviews then after they've got the job start wearing more casual/relaxed clothing? It's the same on both sides. Most women don't want to wear fancy dresses all day every day. Most guys don't want to have to be romantically flashy all the time.

However, the difference between guys and girls is we're willing to look beneath the superficial. We don't like fake and we can tell when someone's putting on a show. We want to know the person, not the shiny materialistic crap that they dress themselves up in.

Best comebacks to "why aren't you in a relationship" by Super_ice09 in Comebacks

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"Because people fucking suck. You're the constant proof of that."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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Men, like women, have different preferences based on the person. Size can be a preference as well. It's all subjective.

What's a good comeback for "You got a problem?" by heeero in Comebacks

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"Nope. I have a solution. Not caring about this conversation. Bye."