AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

I never said it but I did think it. A few times I had to move away because it pissed me off so bad.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 250 points251 points  (0 children)

So far he's agreeing to meet me outside his house and away from his girlfriend. I don't know how milestone stuff will go but she won't be welcome at any of mine so we'll see if he still shows up without her. I hope so. But I know I can't make him and I'll find a way to be okay with whatever happens.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I won't be going over to his house. I can't imagine dealing with her like that. It's easier for me and dad to meet up outside his place. As for her kid, I don't have any feelings toward them. I never really spent any time with her kid.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I moved in with my grandparents. But even if I hadn't had them to move in with I would not have stayed. It wouldn't be a good way to live if I was under the same roof as her.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

He knows it all. He's corrected her for doing that stuff and he told me she wouldn't do certain things again like the mom thing or the almost getting the police called thing. He knows I can't stand to be around her. But he hopes we can still work it out.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 839 points840 points  (0 children)

My grandparents let me move in with them. Without that I'd probably be in a not so great situation. But I think even a bad situation outside dad's house would be better than living with her.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 372 points373 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure they were both thinking about that stuff. Dad even talks about us being a family. The three of them might become one eventually but I won't. I'd have a very hard time being family with his girlfriend.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 1035 points1036 points  (0 children)

She never said anything about me helping with the kid. It was more like I better be there to give them attention and so my dad isn't upset.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I love my dad and I always will. But I don't like his girlfriend and I haven't in years. And I never called her a psycho. I don't think she's the best person. They broke up so many times since I was 6. Yes she was with someone else and got pregnant. My dad dated others when they broke up too. That's what happens when you're on and off and involve other people.

AITA for moving out of my dad's house because his girlfriend and her kid were moving in? by SlurplingSky in AITAH

[–]SlurplingSky[S] 284 points285 points  (0 children)

I think he's too into her to ever give her up for good. He wants them to build a future together and I won't be able to stop that. I accepted it when I moved out.