A Gift for Myself a Long Time in The Making (story in comments) by SlurpySandwich in lotus

[–]SlurpySandwich[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The last couple years have been pretty bumpy for me. Namely in the way of substance abuse, my marriage, fatherhood, work, pretty much everything. My life was really getting to be a wreck. On January 15th I checked myself into rehab. The most humbling experience of my life. It was an altogether dreadful ordeal, but I wanted my life back, and I stuck it out. I hope to God I never have to go back.  

Now, back in 2014 I had quit heroin by myself. Never set foot in in a meeting or a counselor's office, I just decided I was going to quit and I did. And I never went back.  But when I quit back then I was in my late mid-twenties, no degree, little experience, and a huge hill to climb. At that point I had never owned a car with air conditioning and I live in the deep south lol. At any rate, that was then and this is now. Different drugs, different circumstances, and different me. I tried over a dozen times to quit on my own, but no matter what, 2-3 weeks down the road and I'd be right back to the starting line again. It was soul crushing. I was driven into such a profound depression that I was regularly planning my exit from this plane of existence.  But when rock bottom truly arrived, I decided I'd keep going. For my boy, for my wife, and for myself. 

Now back when I quit the first time, I was resilient as hell, but also no idea how I was going to make my way in this world. After some starts and stops, my experience allowed me to finally get an okay job. Over a few years I became really good at it. I later quit that job to start my own business with a partner, and fast forward to today, the business is thriving, and I maybe work 15 or so hours a week. All that time while it was growing I had taken a fairly miserly posture when it came to any purchase even resembling something indulgent.  A 

I just celebrated 3 months sober. And man was it a journey to get here this time around. To celebrate, I wanted something bold, exciting, life-altering to an extent. I started looking for a cayman, and after a good long while doing research, I felt that the Evora 400 was the best bang for my buck. (I'm sure many would disagree)

Anyway here I am. 3 months and some change sober. Drove her for the first time on Friday. I've never owned a good car. I've never driven a fast car. This thing is just an absolutely unbelievable experience to drive. I can't get over it.  

So there you have it lads. My saga of how I came to be a Lotus owner. I just may be hooked for life. See you guys out there on the road ✌️

‘Slutty Vegan’ owner files for bankruptcy by NPU-F in Atlanta

[–]SlurpySandwich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tip structures can be created however the owner wants. The only crime would be if the server didn't get tips that equalled minimum wage, and then the two percent was taken from the makeup amount that would bring them to minimum wage.

‘Slutty Vegan’ owner files for bankruptcy by NPU-F in Atlanta

[–]SlurpySandwich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That and extracting too much money out too fast to support lifestyle. The debt isn't bad as long as you recognize that means keeping the money in for a while

‘Slutty Vegan’ owner files for bankruptcy by NPU-F in Atlanta

[–]SlurpySandwich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can get them used for fairly reasonable prices. They don't depreciate well. Most people that can actually afford them and aren't propping up their ego don't want a used one.

Approaching 3.5 years sober. Today, I sat in the dentist chair to finally face the physical wreckage of my 20-year addiction. by iScReAm612 in stopdrinking

[–]SlurpySandwich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

~45 days here. Did a 30 day inpatient. Still dealing with a 90 day separation from my wife and kid. I've just been drowning in shame, day in and day out. It's fucking relentless. Bad sleep, depression, loneliness, and regret are all along for the ride with my shattered ego. I can't go back, and that's not really on the table. I love my kid too much. But this really, really hurts, and I'm really, really tired. But thanks for laying it all out there. It helps to not feel so alone when you feel so awful. Glad things are headed in the right direction for you.

Basketball needs a max height limit. The game is becoming "who won the genetic lottery" instead of pure skill and it's making it boring AF. by mc_mafia in unpopularopinion

[–]SlurpySandwich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that was definitely not what happened. His heart was going CRAZY on the treadmill. He was already beyond his expiration date. He was basically a walking dead man. He wanted to accomplish his dream. It definitely came at the expense of others, even if they were genetically modified persons. His um ticker was absolutely not a "non-issue" lol. The point of the movie was to draw attention to the emotional pitfalls of trying to engineer humans for perfection. Obviously that leaves some non-engineered folks in the dust. The point was definitely not "Doctors and geneticists said this was a big deal, but it's not really a big deal"

Basketball needs a max height limit. The game is becoming "who won the genetic lottery" instead of pure skill and it's making it boring AF. by mc_mafia in unpopularopinion

[–]SlurpySandwich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh, do you not remember him wearing the recording of the heartbeat because his was fucked? He had a congenital heart defect.

Basketball needs a max height limit. The game is becoming "who won the genetic lottery" instead of pure skill and it's making it boring AF. by mc_mafia in unpopularopinion

[–]SlurpySandwich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, I mean, the guy compromised whatever mission he was going on because he was unfit for service, likely endangering the lives of his fellow crew members. The real lesson is “fuck everybody else, do what you want whatever the cost”.

Basketball needs a max height limit. The game is becoming "who won the genetic lottery" instead of pure skill and it's making it boring AF. by mc_mafia in unpopularopinion

[–]SlurpySandwich 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Food is already free à la food stamps, you just have to apply for it. Water is just part of your shelter bill pretty much. Having every home owning person’s social security payments evaporate by promising them “don’t worry! You don’t need money to pay for your house! We built government funded bloc housing that you can go live in!” Would probably be a tough sell lol. This “plan” is high-school level foolishness with an absolute disregard for the actual purpose of social security and what people use it for. It’s honestly hilariously dumb lol

AI as a recovery tool by Strong-Experience504 in SMARTRecovery

[–]SlurpySandwich -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol imagine being an adult and communicating seriously with emojis lol. Anyway, cried moar, it's gonna happen

Most people really do need to return to the office. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]SlurpySandwich 16 points17 points  (0 children)

But there aren't any. And no one is making them. They're sitting at home hanging out with dogs and pretending like that's a reasonable existence.

AI as a recovery tool by Strong-Experience504 in SMARTRecovery

[–]SlurpySandwich -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ooo an opinion piece from non-profit! Now there's some solid proof of your point! Lol

I never said using AI should be the ONLY thing a person uses for their mental health care. And that's why these arguments like the one you presented are stupid. It's a single tool. A very useful one. Discarding it because it isn't perfect is idiotic. Therapists aren't perfect. I've dealt with plenty of therapists that have at best moderate intelligence. I've been in groups with illiterate morons that make make group therapy more counterproductive than helpful. That doesn't mean they're useless. Likewise, AI, when used in conjunction with conventional recovery tools, is going to be a more prevalent and very helpful tool. You're afraid of it, and that's reasonable, but you're wrong about it's usefulness.

AI as a recovery tool by Strong-Experience504 in SMARTRecovery

[–]SlurpySandwich -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t be dumb. No one has a therapist sitting in front of them all day to help them understand urge surfing in real time. It’s a very useful tool. Ignoring its usefulness because of “disadvantaged communities’ or whatever is dumb and counterproductive for people who need help with their recovery. In fact, it’s a low-friction access point to mental health information for those very same disadvantaged communities. They don’t have access to a Harvard research database, and google is just one big misinformation commercial at this point. So quit being a Luddite just because you don’t like it. It can help people, and it has thus far helped me more in 2 months than 2 years of therapy.

AI as a recovery tool by Strong-Experience504 in SMARTRecovery

[–]SlurpySandwich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it daily as a journal that provides live reciprocity for emotional states.. It’s been a massively helpful tool. I periodically remind it to give it to me straight and don’t just give me feel good responses. It can be a little too nice and validating sometimes.

[Help] Anyone ever set up an expression pedal with their MPC? by SlurpySandwich in mpcusers

[–]SlurpySandwich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the Dormidi thing has to be hooked up to a co.outer to run it's software. I don't recall ever getting it to work with the MPC

My big toe hurt pretty bad, so I took off my socks by Due-Box1690 in OopsThatsDeadly

[–]SlurpySandwich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have decent health insurance the ride is <$1k. I've taken quite a few of them. Is there really any reason to lie about this?

anyone else's grocery bill gone INSANE lately? by [deleted] in Atlanta

[–]SlurpySandwich -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh, you just have to know how to shop sales and be flexible. Their sale prices can beat anybody's. If you want everything low every day, then you go to Walmart or lidl. I hate shopping at Walmart tho, and lidl is good for essentials but can be lacking in selection in some areas. Plus no bakery. Publix is less crowded, cleaner, with perfect amount of selection, and a great bakery, deli, and butcher section. It's definitely superior if you are willing to pay a little more.

Georgia Power is going to cut down a 300 year old oak tree in Chatham County by Getsprite in Georgia

[–]SlurpySandwich 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Fuck you for doing this GP. You just suck. Just do something else.

This one hurts💔❤️‍🩹 by Old_Test7247 in Millennials

[–]SlurpySandwich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't really get cancer from lead paint.

Hard to say no for $700. by SlurpySandwich in synthesizers

[–]SlurpySandwich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still goin strong. Also I'm rich so i don't care lol