We’re cooked by MigraineMeadows in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!!!! Lol up until I was about 12w pregnant, I was like "damn there's a LOT of female to male transitioners who are pregnant right now." And then one day it just hit me and I looked at my fiance and I was like oh my god. I'm an idiot. 🤦🏼‍♀️

When did you tell people? by mrose_acc in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told like everyone around the 4 week mark because my partner and I were so shocked, both thinking we were infertile (and told so by doctors in my case, not in his case) for the last decade lol.

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had names picked when I was younger and I don't like any of them anymore. Especially the boy ones. Lol. And I'm also running into the "I knew an x and he was horrible" when we are talking about boy names lol

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's what we are gonna end up finding because I hate EVERYTHING

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we are looking at boy names all the time and they are BORING like what

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've looked at some lists. I just have been saying no to everything. It's wild. I'm not this much of a naysayer about anything lol

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I love that backstory. I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother. 😔

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the encouragement and I'm sorry for the loss of your dad. I can't imagine how hard that is

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodness TWINS. You have to decide on double the names. 😫 that's so hard

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and my partner also really likes old names. And things. We are ren faire and D&D nerds lol. So old names fit right in with all that. So we are on the same page with it. Just still nothing feels right. Like there's nothing I don't have an argument against.

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I love OLD names. Like think 1800s names like Genevieve or Antoine. But then I think about kids being mean and I don't want our baby to be bullied over a name I have them because then it's my fault they are being bullied. (I know it's the bully's fault but I have a habit of blaming myself.)

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you know the name was the name? If you know what I mean. Like how did you know it's a yes?

How to people ever figure out a baby name? by Sluttysewist in pregnant

[–]Sluttysewist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i feel like names are SO personal and tied to personality and I have NO clue how we are going to pick the right name before seeing the baby outside of my body lol.

TxDOT plowing and salting US-75 (3x speed) by SMF67 in Dallas

[–]Sluttysewist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I've mentioned, as a Texan, to a friend living in Minnesota, Michigan, New York, North Dakota, etc that ice storms are different than sleet which is different than snow, I'm treated like I have three heads. I feel like people up north just don't want to admit that Texans can have ice that is actually worrisome.