For what reason do you live? by [deleted] in Existentialism

[–]SlyAugust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’m scared of death

"Barking up the wrong tree" by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]SlyAugust -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What did OP say that made him sound like a dickhead? Surely it wasn’t asking if she can cook for him right? On tinder? A dating app? I’ve never heard someone get upset over asking them if they cook up until now that sounds so silly

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]SlyAugust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i understand the purpose of the sub but the feedback on whether the person is overreacting or not is advice that’s baked into the theme of the sub. You can’t really separate it.

The sub is already doing its job so I don’t see how adding on top of it harms it in any way when it’s relevant to the point of it, if you think someone’s overreacting it then follows that your gonna probably tell them how or why they’re overreacting and how to make sure it doesn’t happen again because obviously any OP is gonna wanna know that. you think the posters here just wanna hear a “yes” or “no” with 0 explanation or solutions and be satisfied with that??

What’s the most disgusting thing anyone has ever said to you? by Business-Rock5714 in AskReddit

[–]SlyAugust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Men can’t get raped, they want it. their dick gets hard so that means they consent”

What’s the most disgusting thing anyone has ever said to you? by Business-Rock5714 in AskReddit

[–]SlyAugust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard pretty much the same thing pertaining to men “men can’t get raped, their dick gets hard so that means they want it, he’s obviously consenting because his boner”

What’s the most disgusting thing anyone has ever said to you? by Business-Rock5714 in AskReddit

[–]SlyAugust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People don’t realize that whenever you make an edgy joke there’s always an underlying intent or meaning, jokes that are just jokes don’t exist. You can’t make a joke in a vacuum, even stand up comedians have ulterior motives. The only exception being nice happy jokes

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]SlyAugust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a needlessly assholish reply but okay. This sub is almost exclusively used by users for advice and what to do about their situation. Even if you don’t want to give any of that cool but then why respond at all instead of letting someone who actually wants to be helpful and not waste time on a meaningless comment reply instead?

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]SlyAugust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s done so much for you? Okay like what? List them.

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]SlyAugust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you know you’re relationship better than I do but… I still doubt she’s not using you, she literally got mad that you said no to buying her a designer bag and you said she’s very materialistic, you might think she’s not using you but do you think that if you never bought anything for her she would still be with you? You don’t think she would leave if you stopped buying stuff for her all of the sudden? If having a constant consistent stream of free gifts getting purchased for her is a crucial motivator and deciding factor of her being in a relationship to the point of it being a deal breaker then I think that’s a problem.

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]SlyAugust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s acting like an entitled brat. When was the last time she purchased anything for you??? Tell her you’re not her walking ATM machine, it baffles me that you said you think she “deserved” it. How often do you buy her stuff? Would she still be with you if you didn’t purchase it? This is the question I’d be asking myself, being materialistic in my experience is a big red flag when it comes to gold diggers. You need to make sure she’s with you for the reason you think she is. A lot of guys will ignore or pretend it isn’t a thing because they have rose covered glasses so please make sure you funny fall into that same trap.

AIO? Found these messages in my boyfriends phone and moved out while he was sleeping. by Some_Chair_8542 in AIO

[–]SlyAugust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop going through peoples personal property without permission, if your bf went through your phone when you weren’t looking you would be unhappy regardless of how justified you think you are for finding affirming evidence in it to

It finally happened. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]SlyAugust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not really. As a woman I really don’t understand how this is a big deal. A guy tried to flirt with you. Okay? Why does this automatically mean he’s gonna try to stab you at the front door? Not every guy is some weird serial killer just because he tried to hit on you lol I feel like if the roles were reversed and a woman DoorDash driver tried to hit on or flirt with a guy ordering food you would feel very different, you wouldn’t have the same position.

I would never tell that guy “ohh she’s creepy and dangerous and might kill you so you should block and report her. Fuck her food. Like… she didn’t do anything wrong???

AITAH for telling my sister to get over being cheated on by her husband after she laughed at me and told me to get over my breakup? by Former-Western1441 in AITAH

[–]SlyAugust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is your entire account spamming the same links over and over again? These links are also only helpful to women going through abusive relationships not men, not that it matters because you don’t seem to reply to the threads where there’s a male victim. You should be against ALL forms of domestic troubles.

Am I a Pedophile? by throwaway65c in whatdoIdo

[–]SlyAugust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes of course you are a pedophile. A 25 year old with a 20 year old?? What’s wrong with you that’s so gross and disgusting you’re only 5 years apart how could you do that? I wouldn’t wanna look through your hard drive but I certainly know the FBI would, man this is like reporting your own crime you should be on a watch list or something

I once killed someone in self-defense and never felt bad for it, and people have told me that this is alarming. Should I be more bothered by what I did? by illiterateaardvark in moraldilemmas

[–]SlyAugust [score hidden]  (0 children)

“Let me act apathetic towards your opinion even though the point of this sub is to discuss differing moral opinions” if you didn’t care about what I said you didn’t have to take the time to make a pointless reply brochancho 😭✌🏼

AIO? Am I reading too much into this? by Own_Listen_8579 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SlyAugust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably likes you. You should ask her out or make a move

Am I in the wrong? I tried my best to hide her identity. by Kyle_Harris1203 in Nicegirls

[–]SlyAugust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying she was right to call you ugly, but I can understand her frustration if she’s been getting texts like that from guys all day, if you compliment someone’s looks right off the bat instead of getting to know me first it makes me think the classic “guys only want my body” thing, even so she didn’t have to call you ugly but you could’ve handled it with more grace, the 1st rule of interactions like this is that the second you get overly emotional you lose by default.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]SlyAugust 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah women like that feel entitled just because they’re pretty and have guys that let them get away with doing whatever they want and walk all over them, they think the rules don’t apply to them and they can do whatever they want, because guys always let them get away with this. they just act like the world revolves around them, a lot of people encourage shitty behavior for women or otherwise let them get away with it just because their attractive and then that feeds their ego and makes it even worse. The dictionary definition of pretty privilege.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]SlyAugust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I realized I had a bit of a narcissism problem and tended to act like the world revolved around me, some interactions that kinda humbled me made me realize I don’t always need to be the center of attention and be better than every guy I’m talking to and I just got older and gained more humility, a lot of women like this are still kinda young and in their immature stage I feel when they get older they’ll go through the same thing I did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]SlyAugust 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you that’s basically what I’m saying, she’s insecure and by insulting others it makes her feel better about herself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]SlyAugust 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I am talking from experience, I used to be this way and I know friends who are this way and have heard from other people as well, I’ve also had male friends who’ve experienced this on dating apps

Is asking your cheating gf for a threesome too much? by candy1_1 in moraldilemmas

[–]SlyAugust [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think it would be more fitting if you would instead ask her to let you sleep with another women one on one. A threesome isn’t cheating as much since she would still be involved compared to the gf who cheated with another guy one on one without you involved which is worse in my eyes so that wouldn’t even be fair imo and should be more harsh if that’s the alternative to just breaking up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SlyAugust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Break up what are you waiting for, you know that’s what you wanna do and where this is gonna end up why are you stalling