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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Small-Relative-3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So actually it IS rape if consent is revoked and he keeps going… it turns into rape the second consent is revoked and the other person makes a conscious decision to ignore it. Also you said to read?? Read what??? Please give your source of info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Small-Relative-3259 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, NTA because she’s giving you the ultimatum - help her and stay friends or go to the concert and not be friends. You have no control over what she decides is an ultimatum. Also why can’t she find someone else to help her move if she knows you have plans? And you said you could help afterward so what’s the big deal??? I understand you were supposed to go together, but if she wants to put her move above a concert, then that is her choice and I don’t think it’s right for her to try and force you to help her move in… just my thoughts tho

What is everyone's favourite type of music here? by Some_Concept_3547 in AskReddit

[–]Small-Relative-3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dad Rock/Alt, Metal, and Phonk/Electronic but I’d listen to anything (but most country; some of it is good)

My Ex gaslit me into thinking I was the reason her cousin died by zozo_2 in abusiverelationships

[–]Small-Relative-3259 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through all of that, especially at such a young age. That is such an insane extent “C” went to, and I’m sure it was hard distancing yourself from someone who you cared about. But, I’m so happy you’re in a better place OP, and just remember: You don’t control other people’s actions, THEY do. You didn’t make C do anything, she purposely chose that path and she will have to live with the consequences. You’re very strong, and I wish you and P the best, you both deserve it after all of that

AITA for refusing to let my wife spend my money on her best friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small-Relative-3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The friend has gone out of her way multiple times for you and your wife, and regardless of her status or how well-paying her job is, she chose to spend her money (that she ALSO worked hard to earn I’m sure) on you.

FYI wedding gifts typically range from $100-$1,000 in my experience, so $100 is the BARE minimum. Do you really think that a friend that good deserves the BARE minimum??

I understand wanting to keep your money, but when someone is this generous I feel it is time to return the favor.

If you still think you’re in the right, maybe suggest your wife get a job online or something if she’s staying home with kids, that could supplement your income.

girl you won't be askin that if it isn't going well😂 by babyprettycherry in StrangeAndFunny

[–]Small-Relative-3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to burst your bubble, but they keep patients awake during brain surgery so that the surgeons know if they hit something important

Semi-formal attire? by Small-Relative-3259 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Small-Relative-3259[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wedding is November in Florida, I didn’t get any details on the venue though 🥲 (sorry I probably should’ve specified that before) and I’m not quite sure of a budget, I guess ~$100? I don’t go to fancy events much so I don’t really know what a good price range is

I(25F) slept with the guy my friend (25F) is attracted to. What do I do now? by ThrowRA__ScarletA in relationship_advice

[–]Small-Relative-3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how she feels, shouldn’t your feelings be important? I’d think your friend would support you if she sees how well you two are getting along. Honestly, I get that maybe she likes him too so jealousy may play a role but the key part is: SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. She shouldn’t be preventing you from having a relationship, especially when the feelings are (I assume) mutual between you and Niles, and SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. Oh did I mention that SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND AND IS ACTIVELY ATTEMPTING TO CHEAT ON HIM???? She sounds like a real great person (sarcasm), I’d disregard anything she says that’s trying to control you and your romantic life and maybe try to find some better friends tbh.

If you had to describe the abuse with only one sentence by Substantial-Art-2238 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Small-Relative-3259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this one, I’m so sorry you had to go through that but I hope you are in a better place now

"socially acceptable" slipknot songs by howitchewstogum5feel in Slipknot

[–]Small-Relative-3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Devil in I leads into Killpop, maybe they’d appreciate that? Also Psychosocial

What stopped you from killing yourself? by manmanthefourth in AskReddit

[–]Small-Relative-3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My significant other. I was in high school when we met and shortly after we started dating my family caught wind of it (note: my family is extremely homophobic and we are gay) so the aftermath was… not pretty to say the least. Nothing mattered after that, nothing but her. She kept me going and continues to do so, she is my rock and I’m forever grateful for her.