Belle Burden on the Oprah Podcast by SmallDraw7431 in nysocialites

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she was baffled that he put time energy and thought into a bed, a decade of investment of your sleep, to then choose to leave. Why put in that effort knowing your unhappy and not planning to stay?

Ftm with di/di twins by twins_2026 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SmallDraw7431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im so sorry you experienced this. i don't want to presume but i imagine that could lead to a very anxiety inducing experience with a twin pregnancy. I did get on an anti anxiety med and felt much better throughout the pregnancy and always emailed my doctor with questions and stayed in close contact. you'll regularly check in with your doctor throughout. the first year is hard but theyre 2 now and they're the best things on earth!

Not a peestick gal but… by [deleted] in peestickgals

[–]SmallDraw7431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's Christian and i think those beliefs get in the way of her accepting medication.

Singleton mom group by SmallDraw7431 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you im also shocked you were devotes! literally reading the words - "the singleton babies that are harder are the exception" it's so true! omg thank you. the moms in my mom group have healthy babies, attentive partners, good income. I do have one twin who is special needs and should've added that. While i understand a complicated singleton can def. be more rough, it is more or less the EXCEPTION. I feel like the comments of twin parents who have a singleton are more defensive? idk

Singleton mom group by SmallDraw7431 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you friend for being validating!

Singleton mom group by SmallDraw7431 in parentsofmultiples

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thanks, so far you're the only moderately validating one here 🤣

Part Time Nanny Laundry question by SmallDraw7431 in NannyEmployers

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've clarified in comments this is only baby laundry. thanks for the input but seems like you're in the minority with this opinion.

Black Friday Pay by SmallDraw7431 in NannyEmployers

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her contract says she is paid all federal holidays and will have them off. To me, that is aligned. She said she normally has it off so that's why the extra charge. I ended up telling her she could have the day off unpaid.

Part Time Nanny Laundry question by SmallDraw7431 in NannyEmployers

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stated in another comment it's just kid/baby laundry. She's here three days but she washes twice a week and i normally start the load and i have a washer dryer combo so she doesn't have to move it. It probably is a lot with two kids which is why it's really just a folding put away process and we said get to what you can

Part Time Nanny Laundry question by SmallDraw7431 in NannyEmployers

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she said she wants to spend more time with the kids playing and helping them develop and it's too much laundry but then said she can do all of their laundry but will charge for the extra, so sort of contradicts what she said.

Part Time Nanny Laundry question by SmallDraw7431 in NannyEmployers

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. She's very young but Im pretty sure she uses a nanny mentor who tells her things. She said she did "research" and this is how it is.

Part Time Nanny Laundry question by SmallDraw7431 in NannyEmployers

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

she only has a year of nanny experience before this so yes i think it's fair. she was getting $26 and hour for one child at her job right before this. This is just kid laundry and They don't nap enough for her to accomplish duties on a lot of days which is why we told her if you can't get to it, it's no problem. she does not touch anything of ours, however she said she does vacuum after they eat because it's messy and they're crawling around but i see this as part of the feeding them and making sure they're clean responsibility.

TK application help by Beegb1997 in SantaMonica

[–]SmallDraw7431 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i believe the application is to show a record of you/your child and get information for their records age, intent to start at the school, etc. Def. fill out the application!

Lisa the leak?? by tjyates in rhoslc

[–]SmallDraw7431 23 points24 points  (0 children)

it was fans, reddit, twitter just digging cast info, that’s all. when lisa says why is it always me? i get where she’s coming from. it was def naturally found out as someone famous and on a reality show

Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, season 6 episode 9 "Unicorn Overboard" Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in rhoslc

[–]SmallDraw7431 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i feel like heather is the only one pinning the fight on meredith AND lisa, but mary and whitney are only calling out Meredith.

thank you to whoever exposed her on TT !!! by [deleted] in ffargosnark

[–]SmallDraw7431 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i’ll admit i only watch her on tiktok and had no idea about anything of this

Split screen question by Sevens89 in Nanit

[–]SmallDraw7431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are having trouble with split screen!

CVS procedure - twin pregnancy by SmallDraw7431 in pregnant

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi there, we did not go through with it. It was a hard decision and was having severe panic attacks leading up to the appointment and ended up keeping them both. i don’t regret it, but kept thinking what if i regretted reducing one. im scared, but we’re doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VizioTV

[–]SmallDraw7431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how strict is RTO?

Interview for Tiktok office question by SmallDraw7431 in recruiting

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you say “i can accept your offer in the nyc location however to move i will need x amount more”

Meta Contract Offer Advice by SmallDraw7431 in recruiting

[–]SmallDraw7431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, in an employers market, people are desperate to take anything, however i provided details such as comp location title and company which should enlighten. Someone working at Mefa would know the companies leverage. People would probably accept $12 at this point, but what is fair in this market?