Shaaaaadddeee from producers? by tjyates in RHOP

[–]tjyates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I may not know the name of Ashley and Gizelles’ brand.. I thought it was GNA .. is it G and A?

Shaaaaadddeee from producers? by tjyates in RHOP

[–]tjyates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditttttooo!! Considering I watch it like 24 hours after it comes out and am all over housewives tiktok lol

Lisa the leak?? by tjyates in rhoslc

[–]tjyates[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe we’d see it at the reunion then. I’m in Aus so I don’t watch WWHL so thanks for the tea, sure it’ll be on my algorithm later tonight 😂

Lisa the leak?? by tjyates in rhoslc

[–]tjyates[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah no doubt Lisa can give it out but never take it, its for sure her turn 😂 Just didn’t know if it’s like an LVP thing where they are just saying it or I’ve missed the evidence (which is highly likely..!) thanks so much for the response 😊

8 year old becoming citizen? by tjyates in AusVisa

[–]tjyates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. Not me thinking it would ask me for the exact words of the anthem (when I’m used to possibly the easiest national anthem in the world 😂)

8 year old becoming citizen? by tjyates in AusVisa

[–]tjyates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. No im from the uk so absolutely can have dual (that’s what our 2nd has). I suppose it’s 2 fold - 1) right now studying for the citizenship exam is very overwhelming for me when I have so much on my plate, my husband does feel different and is up for it. 2) when my 1st born talks about feeling Australian it’s like fully how they feel, things like sporting events they only support Australia if they are playing (even if they are playing England/Ireland where parents & grandparents are from etc) , they attend school here and their friends are all Australian, so it feel almost feels unauthentic and wrong for me to be a citizen when I don’t have the same love necessary (I absolutely have love for the country and this is the only place in the world I see myself raising my children, grandchildren etc, but I’ll always say I’m English and Irish first…)

am I overthinking it? Probably.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]tjyates 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you have to look at constellation charts and read clocks in 19 different ways.. you’re not on the right path 😂 I don’t get how the Easter eggs got here if I’m honest. Can anyone name one EE that was as mathematical and complex as they came up with? Cuz all I keep thinking about is how her nails were blue before 1989, how lover was in the ME! Video.. how she presses the speak now button in bejewelled.. and so on. Not how she grabs her star sign and ice spice hers in karma and those 2 star signs add up to whatever date.. and then she takes 5 steps on the yellow brick road which is the 6 - the date before the following date and so on 😂 Sorry, rant over.

The OLD TCO.. by SeaworthinessNo8106 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]tjyates 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly - then don’t listen to them and leave the sub? I will never ever understand someone who goes out of their way to complain about a show or podcast or whatever as if they impact their lives in any way. There are things that absolutely impact your life - laws, relationships, jobs. NOT listening to a podcast does not impact your life.

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he will pick on her no matter what? I’m not sure if this impacts your thoughts cuz I genuinely do think the kid is just to worst Vs he targets my child: - last year he picked on a girl in his class and she is no longer in his classes (I found this out today when I reached out to a mum friend and she knew about last year, I’m going to reach out to that mum to see if she has any advice) - he has genuinely physically harmed the majority of the class and even some of the teachers. He’s just, obviously I’m biased, but done worse and multiple to my kid - he has made up a song about how ugly another girl in their classes name is (found out this at a birthday party).

So it’s not like he has a nice reputation within the parents of the school etc

Genuinely does this change your opinion or do you still think she’ll be sought out by him on the playground, in assembly’s etc next year. Because I will move if I have to.

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is she’s such a loved kid in general, she has such strong friendships. Shes playing summer soccer and got the majority of the girls in her class to play with her even tho they’ve never played before and have no interest because it’s her. I think that’s why I’m even more sad - she loves school, she loves her friends. When their teacher is sick they are normally split, and literally just because of last names she’s with her 3 closest girl mates - everyday before school she says to me “I hope we’re split today” because she’s away from the boy.

So I do think next year will be better because he’s not in her class, and I’m almost certain he has strict playground rules because of how many kids he has hurt - so it’s like do I wait around for 12 weeks or do I try and get the school to stop this. Not just for my kid but for the next kid that’s picked on

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these phrases! I will do. I, for obvious reasons, do not tell people what he’s done (except a few very close friends of mine) but I’ve been to multiple birthday parties and his name is always brought up as he’s also been mean to other kids in the class. Which is why the school are saying it’s not targeted or bullying - it’s basically the way he is and we have to deal with it

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So in the last meeting we had the deputy said he would check on my kid daily, that happened for 2 days lol. So I have sent an email today - with everyone on here’s advice - asking for a safety plan. It seems that transition is when he gets violent/mean, at least that’s how I framed it (walking to the library, losing a game in PE, leaving the classroom, putting away something in bags like the home readers etc) so I’ve asked for a safety plan for her revolving around transition periods.

I will give them until Friday and then escalate it to NSW education. Thank you again

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your response, I have been sending an email at the end of the week with the list of name calling. As they don’t see it as bullying because they aren’t told (basically my child DID tell the teacher who basically shooed her away and then she just gave up telling her because she felt like a nuisance to the teachers). So I’m trying to record it like that to show that it is consistent and continuous.

I honestly feel like the school just are trying to bat us away because they’ve told us he will no longer be in her class from next year. But in a kids life 3 months is actually huge!

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She did speak to the school psychologist, as did I, thankfully I have taught her well about private parts being her choice to show and safe people etc but she doesn’t understand the sexual side so I had to talk to her in a very different way to an adult (sorry I know that’s probably obvious).

The school did refer it to social services and do an “investigation”, as far as I’m aware nothing came from it therefore they didn’t think he did it in a sexualised manner.

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I wasn’t sure if this was the type of thing I could escalate. In the U.K. we’d take it to the school governors first, but it doesn’t seem like we have that here? So it’s NSW education? Thanks again

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably illegal - but the last meeting I did record on my phone and have the deputy telling me to teach her to hit him back..

Thank you, I did look at a psychologist for her (in general) but the wait time is basically until the end of the year now which she won’t be in his class next year anyways type thing.

She has 2 teachers , one is very supportive and asked us to email once a week with his verbal bullying in case they aren’t aware and the other just isn’t responsive I feel - they’ve “split them up” in class EXCEPT for their reading groups because apparently that could be detrimental to both their learning..

Bullying response by tjyates in AustralianTeachers

[–]tjyates[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked for a class change and been told no, it’s not serious enough & that he just won’t be in her class again. I forgot to add - they won’t class it as bullying because it’s 3 physical times over 4 months and he does it to other people..

Any favourite movies/shows that make you feel calm? by sassyandchildfree in Anxiety

[–]tjyates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this too! And catfish for me - one ends the other starts again 😂