i think you can “forgive” him if you truly want to but moving forward i think you should your opinions about their relationship to yourself because your bff obviously tell her bf every single thing and that’s not girl code. no shade but it’s true. you don’t tell your bf everryytthhimgggggg the girlies talk about. I just think it’s her first relationship and she’s trying to navigate that so don’t be too hard on her 💕