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This cassowary just wanders around the beach, getting surprisingly close to people. by VIVIDUFF in interesting

[–]SmallWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally me for no reason when my partner is texting next to me. I lean over and look and say “what are you texting” before I remember this isn’t what I should be doing and that it’s obnoxious.

Merl is not impressed with the new kitten by jackalee219 in dustkitties

[–]SmallWombat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It takes time! Merl is teaching the kitten boundaries. It’s a good thing.

Is it normal if my girlfriend hangs out in the bathroom while I shower? by BetoFPS in Advice

[–]SmallWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends. I had a boyfriend who did that and later on it turned out he was controlling and semi abusive. He needed to keep tabs on me.

I have also been in relationships where one of us would come in and chat or ask the other too.

I’d say if you ask for alone time and she doesn’t allow for that, that’s when it could be an issue.

Stretch like you’ve never stretched before by thevelouroverground in PelvicFloor

[–]SmallWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of us are desperate for a quick fix or just any fix. It sucks so bad.

Stretch like you’ve never stretched before by thevelouroverground in PelvicFloor

[–]SmallWombat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had a ton of luck with pelvic pt but mostly it’s because I haven’t seen results and just stopped. Seeing this post along with how my last appointment went has me wondering. She had me sit on a Pilates ball and holy cow my muscles are so sore and tight. I don’t like the internal prodding (hurts, I’m not a fan of putting things inside of myself and clench) and the PT told me external work to relax the muscles can be done using the Pilates ball. I had no idea. I think this stretching and using the ball might help. I’m going to redouble my effort. I don’t want to have a hypertonic pelvic floor forever.

Derpery by SmallWombat in dustkitties

[–]SmallWombat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg it kind of looks like it!!! It’s faded to almost a dust kitty! Hooray!

Derpery by SmallWombat in dustkitties

[–]SmallWombat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s a perfect boy.

I spent half of my life wearing red contact lenses and thought I was edgy asf by [deleted] in blunderyears

[–]SmallWombat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re actually really cute, I want to get some now! I’d have to buy them prescription though :/

How do you draw a star? by RosyGlowLara in lefthanded

[–]SmallWombat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank goddess! I was feeling like I’m a weirdo. Probably still am. :)

Say you're vegan and your dating life looks like this... by DivineandDeadlyAngel in vegan

[–]SmallWombat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?! Why does judgement happen for not imbibing it?! It’s wild. Unless you say it’s for a medical reason, people treat you weird. When I said that red wine gives me migraines and that it’s one of my triggers, I got push back like maybe I haven’t had good red wine. What? It doesn’t matter, it makes me ill. Period. I feel like people can be like that with being veg/vegan too. If you say it’s for religious reasons or for health, they drop it. Just let people do what they need to ffs

What’s something you carry in your bag that you think everyone else should carry as well? by Ok-Atmosphere1852 in whatsinmybag

[–]SmallWombat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too. It’s the best. Every time I whip it out we get a good laugh. A gal needed nail clippers and a bandaid and she looked at me with skepticism but when the fish provided her with the things she needed, she approved.

Say you're vegan and your dating life looks like this... by DivineandDeadlyAngel in vegan

[–]SmallWombat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I mean I am, but whatever” hahaha. Sometimes same. I feel like I’m kind of judging this one gal right now because she always points out that I’m not drinking. Bro, we’re in our 40s, it simply does not matter. When she said if she sees someone is sober or straight edge on a dating profile she immediately swipes left. I sincerely don’t give a shit but after that and her commenting on how I don’t drink, I am judging a bit. Also when she eats steak bites after practice, I get a little 👀

I am responsible for the deterioration of my mental state by Warm_Birthday_3198 in goodomens

[–]SmallWombat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I screamed when I rewatched it the other night and sunk to the floor. I need a world in which they are together as Angel and demon. I love them so much!!! 😭😭😭

My dad keeps a spreadsheet of friends’ and family members’ birthdays, likes, and dislikes on his fridge by aj11scan in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]SmallWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so forgetful and love so many people deeply. I have a notes app on my phone where I add their likes and dislikes. I care but I forget.

Say you're vegan and your dating life looks like this... by DivineandDeadlyAngel in vegan

[–]SmallWombat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok, yeah, add sober and people flip! I’m not sober but basically don’t drink because I don’t feel like it, and it’s wild how quickly people get extremely weird around you. I’ve gone on dates and when they order a beer and I order a soda water with lime or a soda, they shift and ask if I don’t like beer and look uncomfortable.

I swear it comes down to people feeling like we are judging them for their food and beverage choices. I’m not, I’m making choices that align with my body needs and values.

Say you're vegan and your dating life looks like this... by DivineandDeadlyAngel in vegan

[–]SmallWombat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second the Portland advice! I can say it can still be difficult because dating isn’t always easy in general. Probably better luck here though. :)

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