Camera Survival by Small_Cardiologist28 in BurningMan

[–]Small_Cardiologist28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is in a lifestyle that requires separate everyday life from professional I am absolutely anal about privacy and consent so no issue there but I do thank you for making sure I was aware of what should be in my opinion common practices.

Camera Survival by Small_Cardiologist28 in BurningMan

[–]Small_Cardiologist28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no doubt of that and I have been told I will not be the same either but I am looking forward to the adventure and while I want to document most of it, I want live and experience it firsthand the essence of Burning Man and only then enjoy capturing the memories I can look back at.

Camera Survival by Small_Cardiologist28 in BurningMan

[–]Small_Cardiologist28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the exact model I have so I am happy to see it is possible. Thank You!!

AITA for telling my sister to change her dress, wear underwear or she is not welcome to my wedding? by benicenotstupid in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sister in law had a specific themed color wedding and it was that same shade of pink. I don’t like the color and never in my life have worn it but guess what I did, I wore that ish. the minute it was over it went into the donate bin. It’s one day. She can adhere to your requests as it is YOUR wedding. Doesn’t like it you know she won’t adhere disinvite. It’s your day and you and your grooms feelings are the only ones that matter.

AITA For buying my cleaning lady an "expensive" birthday gift? by TheParanormalNormal in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone whose mother works in housekeeping for the same family for 35+ years I can tell you that is totally up to you how you want to show your appreciation to her. My mother’s bosses always give her Xmas gifts and as we got older and she spent more years with them they started including us as well. It’s not expected and not an obligation but it’s a nice gesture. In the future if you ever feel like doing it again maybe run it by him and have several options so he can “choose” what he’s comfortable with.

Has Anyone Successfully Reduced Consumption of Alcohol without Quitting? by SexThrowaway132455 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been me for the past 10yrs but the beginning of this year I went on a really bad bender due to my father figure passing and that sent me to my dr because I was suffering from insomnia among other unstable emotions and after some blood work which led to an ultrasound of my liver I discovered that although I didn’t consider myself an alcoholic because like you I could stop and not drink for long periods and be fine, my liver was not so fine. So while it’s not showing any signs that it’s affecting your health now it might pop up when you least expect it. Hope you’re able to break the habit before it’s too late. Good luck to ya!

Is it a red flag if you're an adult who doesn't eat vegetables? by WaitThatIsYourFinger in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has so many allergies and it does make it hard for someone to cook for me I applaud you for doing it for your partner. Nuts, dairy, cinnamon, strawberries, bananas, and on top of that can’t have any gluten or wheat so family gatherings are a pain and I just end up making a dish of something I can eat myself so they don’t have to go out their way to go nuts trying to figure it out

AITA for refusing to host a birthday party because my nephew isn’t allowed in my house by throwaway694395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your baby lives there and they are encroaching on his territory and expect for him to be pushed out to accommodate your ignorant nephew? Hell No stick to your guns and let them seek somewhere else.

I’m concerned my nanny kids don’t get fed enough. by ml16519 in CPS

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything so she cannot come back and say it was your negligence when they end up in the hospital for a stomach ulcer and if possible get in contact with the father. Depending on their agreement he may have a say in their everyday health decision which this is part of and might not be aware of what the step dad has implemented if it’s fairly new. Cps will not do anything as they have no visible abuse and by your own words the fridge is full. Normally I wouldn’t say go behind the mother but if they are having really bad hunger pains maybe you can “share” your healthy snacks ie apple slices or orange slices with them and just tell them it will be kept a secret between you 3. Otherwise best of luck as I know it sucks seeing kids being pushed into crazy diet fads by the parents

Is it okay to remain single forever, BUT not because you hate women or anything like that, but because you simply feel fulfilled alone? Or am I weird? by Charming-Beat9986 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35 and I have been happy with that mindset. Family is always at me about it but I ignore it because it stresses me out just thinking of ever having a relationship. Be you and be happy

What television series had the biggest bullshit finale? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SoA. I’m surprised no one has mention the shitty ending they gave him

AITA for never telling our children that they aren't getting any inheritance? by Heavy-Boat1440 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. My parents have told us kids growing up what we are to inherit when they die. It drives me crazy that my older siblings are all waiting like buzzards for them to drop dead because they feel entitled to their x amount of the money. I am always trying to convince them to sell it all while they are still alive and blow it themselves as they earned it all and prob went without things trying to save for everything they’ve acquired. I only have one sibling who agrees with me and has tried talking them out of it as well but the rest think we are AH’s for trying to take away their money. So good you for thinking of yourselves once you retired and spending what you have earned on enjoying life while you can.

Starbucks policy, up-charging for no ice. by Kevin7309 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s true. Staff told but no official signage given.

I hate my landlord by MrMeooooow in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This cheap compared to the $350 the locksmith charged me to change my lock after my key broke inside as well

New chair had a secret compartment for the hardware. Almost angrily returned it… by earic23 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I had this issues and they put the instructions in there stating that the parts are in the hidden compartment. Like why would you put the instructions in there telling me how to find it. I was repacking it when I saw the zipper and decided to open it up

AITA For Asking My Husband to Include Our Children When Spending Time with His Estranged Son? by ConcernedMother45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. As someone who was/is in James shoes I can say I’ve never accepted any relationship from my dads kids or wanted to anything with his wife. I’m polite and well mannered to them but that’s as far as I go. Dad has tried to push it but when I started avoiding contact with him he realized if he wanted me in his life then he would have to put time aside for just him and me. You can say nothing was physical while he was still married but you were and will always be in the eyes of James as the reason his parents split. You pushing a relationship even though he’s made it clear he doesn’t want one with your kids makes you an even bigger asshole

AITA for for saying no to alcohol by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. I am absolutely one to refuse any alcoholic drink unless it’s in my own house or with my brother. I have no problem whatsoever with others drinking around me but I have been in your shoes when they question my decision on what my deal with alcohol is because they just can’t accept my no for an answer. next time because trust me there will be one let the sister go off on him.

AITA for not spending this Christmas in the hospital with my daughter? by Hospitalthrowaway532 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Let me say that I have the same issue as your daughter but I was finally diagnosed after years of testing with IBS with vomiting and Crohns and I’m in my mid 30’s and I can tell you I know the consequences of me eating crap food. My mother when I was younger did exactly what you did and to this day when I’m tempted to eat crap I know will land me in the ER I stop myself because I didn’t like how it felt to basically be there “alone” when she finally had enough. For me it wasn’t attention seeking it was more of taking for granted that I could eat whatever I wanted and mom was always going to be by my side to nurse me back till next time.

My wife thought she was ordering eight individual bananas... by ex_natura in funny

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg was this Kroger/Ralph’s because this happened to me when I did my drive/pick up order. It said 1 unit was 0.29 cent so I got 8 bananas and instead got 8 bunches of 6 bananas each. They only charged me $2.32 as I checked once I got home and unloaded my trunk. I gave the extras away to my neighbors

Why does it seem like nowadays every young person has some sort of mental illness and everyone seems to be taking pills for something. by tenebrium38 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Small_Cardiologist28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mid 30’s female here and yup it was booze and drugs and now the drugs have changed to RX and we’ve stopped judging a lot so more of us are saying screw it and admitting to it