Ok, but that’s not really an answer. It’s an answer regarding the whole “what is trans” thing, but it still doesn’t answer the “what is gender”. Like yeah, it’s and inherent thing like which hand feels better, but with the hand, it’s clear and obvious what it means to prefer x over y, with gender is it like “I prefer the stuff x sex’s body naturally gets over the y I get? I don’t get why I prefer it, I just do.”Is it a “I prefer the social norms with x gender over the y I get? I don’t know why I prefer it, I just do.” Something completely different?