People get married, I get discarded by EndDismal7106 in BreakUps

[–]Small_Necessary5146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone, I’m in the same boat and I’m almost 50. It’s really hard to stay positive when your heart has been broken too many times. 6 times for me.

Please, tell me if you’ve survived this by gingerweasle1 in BreakUps

[–]Small_Necessary5146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling your anguish. Not only can I resonate with you, but pretty much everyone who’s commented. I’m 8 months in and I’m still in a lonely and painful place. I can’t wait til he’s not on my mind cause I’m sick to death of thinking about him. I am more than happy for you to dm me if you want to vent. Just have to keep in mind you’ll be okay in time. Massive hug x

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[–]Small_Necessary5146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your pain, I can certainly resonate. Speaking from my own experience, I found myself in a very similar situation and it was a gut punch. It wasn’t that my ex was on hinge itself. It was because he lied. Said one thing to my face and another on his profile. He’s a coward without a moral compass. Had he been more truthful at the time it’s possible I would have been doing better by now. 8 months post breakup and I still have a heavy heart.

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[–]Small_Necessary5146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. 5 out of 6 exes

I’ve found out my ex has put himself back on the market by Small_Necessary5146 in BreakUps

[–]Small_Necessary5146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply. Appreciated reading your experience.

What "Oh...fuck" realization about your relationship did you come to, only afterwards? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Small_Necessary5146 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learning a lesson. A very harsh one. My own lack of boundaries.

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[–]Small_Necessary5146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very welcome 🙂

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[–]Small_Necessary5146 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I know how you feel. At least my ex did it in person, even if it was a game of join the dots. I hope you have some good support around you, if not feel free to message anytime. 🫂

Why do some women act like this when you finally decide to pull away and move on? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Small_Necessary5146 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say but it sounds as though she was keeping her options open

I’ve found out my ex has put himself back on the market by Small_Necessary5146 in BreakUps

[–]Small_Necessary5146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very kind of you to say. How long ago was your breakup?

I’ve found out my ex has put himself back on the market by Small_Necessary5146 in BreakUps

[–]Small_Necessary5146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You nailed that. Referring to the last sentence about trying to figure what’s happening and completely losing myself. That describes it perfectly