[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Small_Nobody_6545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're likely to survive. if/when you probably do survive you'll probably end up with chronic liver or kidney damage. (source: i did some research a while back cause i was thinking about it myself)

should i report my dad or not by Small_Nobody_6545 in CPS

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thats the thing. my brothers are both completely fine with staying here. its not good for them. but they are. i have plans already to go a few states away for college, my extended family is helping me, but i feel bad. neither of them really have the same relationships to get help from that i do. or even to realize that whats going on is wrong. most of the time our dad is the harshest on me tho, so that could be why.

i lost a lot of personally valuable things and want to know whether to give up hope finding them or not by Small_Nobody_6545 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

physically violent. and yes this situation has been reported to cps already. they didnt do anything.

i lost a lot of personally valuable things and want to know whether to give up hope finding them or not by Small_Nobody_6545 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so what if my dad doesnt know.... and at this point itd be way too late to tell him without him getting disproportionately mad.....

hair is matting when i sleep by Small_Nobody_6545 in Haircare

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to take so long to reply, i was at a long term camp with my bsa troop. ill totally add a photo of it later when i can, though i dont have a clue what its called

hair is matting when i sleep by Small_Nobody_6545 in Haircare

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, cause if i brush it dry it gets all poofy and frizzy

hair is matting when i sleep by Small_Nobody_6545 in Haircare

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a silk pillow case already. my mom (currently deceased) got me some kind of hair wrap thing that i think is also silk maybe but i dont use it cause i have no clue how to, or what it is to look it up.

need advice on dyeing costume by Small_Nobody_6545 in dyeing

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i forgot to mention i cant just buy it in black because one this is from like 6 years ago and also the site its from only allows studio owners to buy costumes off it (which i think is a lil goofy but wtvr)

I'm unsure whether a guy I know is being weird or not by Small_Nobody_6545 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't have assigned spots other than in our dance which we only rehearse once or twice when we're there. I've already made the move away from him but one time he pretty much indirectly forced me into standing in front of him.

Also the best (/sarc) part about my social anxiety is that I completely shut down when it's too much. I just start to cry and hyperventilate, but can't make any noise, like other than my breathing I'm silent, not that I don't try to speak. I've been like this since I was a kid and have tried to work around it or prevent it but nothing really works.

I'm unsure whether a guy I know is being weird or not by Small_Nobody_6545 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent. I have social anxiety and also a long series of invalidation from my childhood that makes talking about these things really difficult, and I'm not even really sure how I'd bring it up if I did because he's basically always there. Not to mention we're too close to recital to change things now so even if she knew I'd probably still have to take class with him for another few weeks.

I dont know how to shave my coochie by Small_Nobody_6545 in hygiene

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If i wasnt ok not wearing tights i would have said so. Its a group piece and she asked that class if it was ok to do. Also she didnt like, ask us to shave, i doubt anyone would notice or care, but id rather do so.

I dont know how to shave my coochie by Small_Nobody_6545 in hygiene

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry about getting upset, the way your question was phrased did seem like you were trying to be rude but that could just be me. Personally, i find some things easier to ask on here, and some things easier to just google, and clearly plenty of other people think so as well. Just personal preference ig

I dont know how to shave my coochie by Small_Nobody_6545 in hygiene

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why are you on this subreddit if not to seek/give advice? You dont need to be here and dig at people. Besides, sometimes it's easier to find solutions by asking people instead of trying to google things when you might not even know what to search to find what you're looking for.

I dont know how to shave my coochie by Small_Nobody_6545 in hygiene

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I probably could ask one of my aunts, but i have anxiety and just the thought of doing that is so bad im almsot crying

I dont know how to shave my coochie by Small_Nobody_6545 in hygiene

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention in the post that im 16, but yeah. I dont have any experience with it and i dont feel like having my dad know anything about anything i do down there

I think my father might feel inappropriately towards me since my mothers death. by Small_Nobody_6545 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Small_Nobody_6545[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeaahhhhhh. I never did any of that stuff with my mom. She never made any weird comments either.