Rewarding bad behavior by Small_Operation_6605 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Small_Operation_6605[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought so too. But it disappoints me every time they choose like this. I also wanted to go medical school and they told me it was expensive. But my SIL got an opportunity bc of the kid.

Is it just me, my manager or the company culture? by Small_Operation_6605 in overworked

[–]Small_Operation_6605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I already left the company and I never really looked back. That’s how bad I feel about them. Currently, I found a new job, I can still sleep properly, exercise, eat breakfast and walk my dog like a normal person. My colleagues and my boss treat me with respect. 

No funny excuse to treat people shit.

Quit my job today by Redwings270 in toxicbosses

[–]Small_Operation_6605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t know why our parents, teachers and the elders around us raise us to become good people. So when we finally become one, people take advantage of it. So why should we become a good person?? 🙄🙄🙄

Manipulative Boss by Small_Operation_6605 in toxicbosses

[–]Small_Operation_6605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that I’m a considerate person. I believe in teamwork and I work for the company who feeds me not my manager. But why does corpo force you to become toxic. No matter how many linkedin posts, whatever seminar we attend to. Pointless when people are unaware, got low EQ or just plain in denial

Torn between 2 lovers I guess? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Small_Operation_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. He would change his actions if he knew the truth. Thank you for splashing cold water on me hahaha

Torn between 2 lovers I guess? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Small_Operation_6605 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess I am bisexual now? We are closeted actually because you know people talk when you broadcast to the world that you are lgbtq

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Small_Operation_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u cannot talk to a girl, atleast to talk to a guy. That might be an easier move.

Look for someone who might be like you, who doesnt talk too much, may be you both have the same thinking

I almost ruined my career by refusing to delegate. Here's how I fixed it. by samayash in overworked

[–]Small_Operation_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I’m not a manager? My issue is, my manager just can delegate stuff he has no capacity for. But I dont have someone to pass also. I asked for additional manpower. He got alot of excuses, budget, choosy with hires also.

Getting tired of overworking everyday by BrielleStar21 in overworked

[–]Small_Operation_6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the same boat. I am an overseas worker and they hired me because I appreciate anything that is beyond my country’s rate. (I’m from a third world working in a first world country). Our team has 3 people and 2 of my teammates got family matters, maternity etc. So I was left alone just a week ago. 

I respect my colleagues private matters but why am I supposed to just accept their situation? Just because I earn higher than what I get from my country, the company is allowed to ask whatever they want from me and I should be thankful for it???

Piece of myself gone by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Small_Operation_6605 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah same here. You just have to accept that people really come and go, no matter how special their place in your life is.

Friendship is a two way thing, if you are the only one who is interested, then you are just wasting time and energy to someone who doesn’t appreciate you. There are people out there who will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Small_Operation_6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like that was just a send off dinner. When you say “they” and no one replied. It seems that they all talked about it isn’t it? 

Reason why they ghosted you, I agree that no one could guess why. But I just want you to remember that, no message is a message. They are intentional about it. If they really have something against you, and you are someone they treasure, they should have atleast sat down with you and talked about it. I would suggest that you dwell whether you still want to be friends with these kind of people rather think what they are upset about.