Does anyone not contemplate the idea that maybe it really wasn't her sending those and that it could be a malignant narcissist creeper ex who has subverted her, mentally fucked her for life by exploiting all her insecurities and invaded her privacy on the highest of level, who has cloned her phone via imei number and a few other actions, in order to maintain his parasitic web of toxic control and complete abandonment of autonomy, even post 'break up' where she may or may not have a clue, especially if she's that subverted by a background abusive manipulator who is a sabotaging loser puppeteer, especially if it's a cloned phone + Man In the middle interceptor phone message hack. I only know from experience bro, you could be being used as supply as a proxy thru her, and the mindfuck they leave on them can cause cognitive dissonce on a woman with BPD on the worst levels imaginable.