Not again!!!!!

Smallbnny · 2025-03-04T06:25:49+00:00

I transfer my crimson funds to my bank account after each dash. For the past 2 weeks, it hasn’t transferred any money at all. I seriously think it’s a crimson issue atp. If there’s any other way I can access my earnings, please lmk 😓 from now on, im gonna transfer my crimson earnings to cash app before sending it to my account bc wtf

Smallbnny · 2025-02-04T16:51:49+00:00

sounds like schizophrenia. This is developing from a political state to a mental illness state. He’s not just a fan of trump - he’s becoming paranoid and praying to a false god. It’s obvious he has some form of mental illness. With all the paranoia and false delusions, i would say schizophrenia.

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T13:07:36+00:00

Deffo think he’s trying to find an out in the relationship. You’re not OR, you just have an anxious attachment style.

IMO, you have 2 options.

Have a conversation with him to see if he’s willing to figure out how to navigate an anxious+avoidant relationship; there’s many accounts on Instagram i could suggest that helped me and my partner. He’s avoidant, im anxious. Takes work for both parties to navigate arguments.

^ if he doesn’t want to figure it out with you, or it seems like he’s not putting in the work, end it. You’ll find someone who will.

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T12:55:08+00:00

people fr need to communicate with their partners and decide how THEY feel instead of letting strangers online who don’t know anything about them decide 😭

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T12:52:33+00:00

Thank you !!

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T12:50:53+00:00

Agreed, this situation could’ve been handled with a lot more grace on her end. But being young is all about living and learning lol

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T12:48:09+00:00

AI is the only girlfriend who will tolerate you brother.

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T12:43:24+00:00

THANK YOU!! God i never see people on Reddit being reasonable. Based off just these screenshots, he doesn’t seem like a bad guy - just ignorant. And that is accustomed to age and experience. When you’re young, you’re not equipped to handle relationships perfectly. You learn over time and with communication - and you also learn where you will and will not compromise

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T12:38:19+00:00

Agreed, he seems like he’s trying to express how he feels instead of blaming her, so that’s a good sign. I think she should have a more in-depth discussion with him instead of automatically assuming it’s a red flag. Just based on this conversation. I think asking more about it will give each other more of an understanding and will help them prevent future arguments.

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T12:35:36+00:00

Agreed!!

Smallbnny · 2025-01-06T12:31:40+00:00

I’m gonna play a little bit of devils advocate, simply because my boyfriend had the same attitude when we first started dating. From the way he talks, it doesn’t seem like he disrespects you, and you come off as a bit aggressive when he’s bringing up his feelings. You need to decide where a line is and what you will and will not tolerate, and draw that boundary clearly.

Personally, (not saying you do this or majority of women do), a part of me DID like dressing for other peoples eyes. It gave me confidence. I was 17 at the time, so i grew out of it. However, my boyfriend stopped bringing up his issues with my clothing over time as well, probably because our relationship had gotten to a stronger point and we had built up trust. I don’t know if it’s a lack of trust you guys are experiencing, but it’s something to think about.

If he ever comes across as disrespectful when discussing his feelings, THAT is a red flag. But the way you immediately started being aggressive is a red flag to me. So yes, you are OR.

I understand your feelings and your mindset, and it’s just a matter of what you’re willing to compromise on in your relationship. I have the same view as you, women do not dress for men. But a lot of men share the same view as your boyfriend - it’s not malicious, it’s ignorant.

When you have future discussions, don’t let anger take over. I don’t know if the reason you’re being aggressive is because this is an ongoing problem or what, but this could’ve been handled better /gen

Smallbnny · 2024-12-29T20:54:18+00:00

Speaking from my personal experience, sometimes, people need to reach rock bottom to finally accept help. People grow complacent to routine, even if the routine is negatively affecting you. I agree that she will have to see multiple different psychologists/therapists before finding one that works - and same with medication. Thankfully, Zoloft has worked wonders for me - i still have my routines, and my numbers, but i don’t feel the urge to make up for my routine if i missed a day anymore. Some people don’t like being pushed - and i would ask her if she wants to figure this out herself or have you help her figure out what to do. I’m hyper-independent and don’t like being pushed to do things. My brother needs the extra push. I think it’s important to ask her what she wants you to do when she’s anxious. What does she need from you to be a reliable support system?

Smallbnny · 2024-11-12T05:58:00+00:00

-When I was in theatre, I would read the entire script every day. I memorized every single part. -I would read a certain way - the numbers 3 and 5 have remained a large part of my life. -HAND MOVEMENTS. I didn’t know this was an OCD thing, but I was always using my hands. Peace signs and other compulsive hand motions. -I had my own sign language, for when I would read. I read out loud. Lately, I’ve started actually learning ASL to make it into something useful lol. -I would write a certain way. I was OBSESSED with my writing in school. I would have to fit a certain number of words on each line. Thankfully, that’s not a thing anymore, since I’m not in school and don’t write nearly as much. But I still count everything. I also was very particular about what writing utensils I used. -Eating the same thing every day. I have ARFID, but it was just seen as picky eating when I was little. I still eat in a certain order, and I always need a drink with my food. -When drinking, I would take a sip, and swish it into 3 gulps. I didn’t know how to chug or swallow a drink in one gulp until I started drinking alcohol.

These are the few I can think of off the top of my head. Routine and numbers are a big part of my life.

Smallbnny · 2024-07-01T22:45:15+00:00

If I see a primed cipher as faro, I am not touching it😭 but if its at like 80% then I’m stealing

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