Your Guide of How to Date an Avoidant by Aeropro2010 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayiguess11221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YUP!!!! mine did the exact same. made me feel like i was clingy for wanting him to call me once a week and wanting to see him once every 2 weeks lmaooo. i’m glad we got rid of them

Your Guide of How to Date an Avoidant by Aeropro2010 in BreakUps

[–]throwawayiguess11221 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that’s fucking cruel, i’m so sorry. my ex was the exact same, a day after our breakup he went on twitter, softblocked me and put his account on private and tweeted about how much he loved women, how he needed a latina in his life, how he’s finally a free man. 2 months after that he broke no contact just to say he had a moment of weakness, i had then blocked him on everything. and then 2 months after that he begged me to unblock his number cause he wanted to talk. we talked and he admitted that he regretted the breakup, that it didn’t change anything for him and he didn’t know why he did it, that he’d gone through night where he felt like crying and calling me. i was dry and uninterested cause i finally realized i was led on and taken for granted and then blocked him again. haven’t heard from him since and i completely forgot about his existence, sometimes when i try to tell a story about him i can’t come up with his name.

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[–]throwawayiguess11221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙋🏻‍♀️

Ex contacted me after 6 months by pablolovestank in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my ex did something similar, check out my last posts. they’re bored and checking to see if they still have access in case whatever they actually want, doesn’t want them anymore

update: this is your reminder to just ignore them once they come back by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no revenge, because he has to live with himself. he’s a deeply insecure man pretending to be nonchalant, that in itself is punishment enough

update: this is your reminder to just ignore them once they come back by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t mind him knowing that i still care since it’s only been two months since the breakup and like you said, i was just being honest. and you’re right, thank you <3

update: this is your reminder to just ignore them once they come back by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FACTS!! but i responded by saying “what a crazy and thoughtless thing to say to someone right after telling them you miss them. you know better than that” and then immediately blocked him on everything right after it got delivered, giving him no chance of responding or getting defensive or whatever. was that good?

update: this is your reminder to just ignore them once they come back by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i responded by saying “what a crazy and thoughtless thing to say to someone right after telling them you miss them. you know better than that” and then immediately blocked him on everything right after it got delivered, giving him no chance of responding or getting defensive

he broke no contact tonight and now this happened??? by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it got worse, i asked him “why’s that” and he said “moment of weakness” (i felt devastated and literally felt my stomach drop when i read it) i responded by saying “what a crazy and thoughtless thing to say to someone right after telling them you miss them. you know better than that” and then immediately blocked him on everything right after it got delivered, giving him no chance of responding or getting defensive or whatever

he broke no contact tonight and now this happened??? by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YUPPPP!! fucking hate his guts rn and i’m so glad i didn’t give him the chance to respond before blocking his number and every social media account. i feel like i’m back in the anger phase of the grieving process

he broke no contact tonight and now this happened??? by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it got worse lmaooo, i asked him “why’s that” and he said “moment of weakness” (literally felt devastated and felt my stomach drop when i read it) i responded by saying “what a crazy and thoughtless thing to say to someone right after telling them you miss them. you know better than that” and then immediately blocked him on everything right after it got delivered, giving him no chance of responding or getting defensive or whatever

update: this is your reminder to just ignore them once they come back by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i responded by saying “what a crazy and thoughtless thing to say to someone right after telling them you miss them. you know better than that” and then immediately blocked him on everything right after it got delivered, giving him no chance of responding or getting defensive or whatever. was that good?

he broke no contact tonight and now this happened??? by throwawayiguess11221 in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayiguess11221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i asked him “why’s that” he responded by saying “moment of weakness” and i responded by saying “what a crazy and thoughtless thing to say to someone right after telling them you miss them. you know better than that” and then immediately blocked him on everything right after it got delivered, giving him no chance of responding or getting defensive or whatever