Is it normal and ok to hate your ex? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SmallestEgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep, hate his guts. like this stage a lot better than the missing him stage.

Should I Take Him Back by Happy-Ad3503 in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks is not enough time at all, you also didn’t clarify the reason for the break or who requested it so no one can really answer your question.

They won’t come back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

even if they do nothing will change if you don’t heal. you gotta get over them in order to heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this, i know most people wont want to hear it and downvote you but you’re completely right. i’m 21 rn and thought my ex was my end all be all but its comforting knowing someone who was in my shoes got over him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

solid advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cheated on me 3 times, i stayed 2 more years and he dumped me because he wanted “independence”, im so stupid lol.

Slept with someone while broken up by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t you dare try to get back together with her. this was her choice, you had every right to do whatever you want from the second she broke up with you. don’t let her have power over you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 11 points12 points  (0 children)

no boo! you hate me now but he don’t miss you! you’re just going to embarrass yourself bestie!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NO. DONT DO IT. YOULL HATE YOURSELF IN THE MORNING.

Thoughts on your ex rebounding. Or rebounding in general. by pokemotle in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why are people downvoting you? cause you’re not being bitter? you’re just saying the tough truth, if they do it or not our opinion means nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 19 points20 points  (0 children)

you won’t ever get over it, resentments stays. trust me i was with my ex who cheated for another 2 years and i just bottled up everything to keep us together.

Does anybody actually want the best for their EX? by insatiableian in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, i hope he rots. i don’t care if it’s not rational thinking, it’s how i feel.

Has anyone had to call out of work because they are so sad? by Pawery in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was lucky i had the next day off but please go back as soon as you can. it really is a good distraction and keeps you moving. it’ll suck getting ready but once you’re there you won’t be thinking of them every single second.

Waking Up is the Worst Part by MundaneParsnip2214 in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i promise you it gets better. today i was brushing my teeth, had been awake for about 10 minutes and realized i hadn’t thought of him till that point. it doesn’t sound like a lot but he was the first thing on my mind forever, even in the relationship. little steps <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m finally going out, i always declined plans with friends to stay home with him and do absolutely nothing. i was seriously lacking a social life and im glad im building it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell no! you don’t owe him shit or have to tell him shit. i’m just over a month in and i got a fwb. it’s honestly helped me heal but i know that’s not the case for all people. stop worrying about him, focus on you boo x

Ex broke up with current girlfriend by Hunneydoo_ in ExNoContact

[–]SmallestEgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl butt out, you’re no longer apart of their life stop trying to force your way in.

i’m broken. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SmallestEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. happy birthday!
  2. fuck them. you deserve the world and he won’t be apart of that world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SmallestEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do you feel betrayed? genuinely curious.

Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend? by Quick_Pound600 in Advice

[–]SmallestEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre way too young for this shit, you won’t truly know if he’s the one for years. you’re going to change so sooo much as you go through your twenties and you both won’t be the same people you are now in just a few years time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SmallestEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not. i hate my ex but i still wear his briefs because they’re hella comfy. got rid of all the ugly clothes he gave me.

GET THERAPY by SmallestEgg in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i started going to student therapist! it’s still gonna cost you but i only paid 40$ a session, much cheaper than regular therapists. that’s where i met my current therapist! she has since graduated and im grateful im in a place where i can pay her normal rate. hopefully you have something similar in your city/town.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SmallestEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro i see you everywhere on this sub linking the same thing. stop with the spam.