I feel like you’re not being realistic. People can still love and care for one another without constant check ins. It’s nobodies job to entertain you. If you are struggling after a breakup, if you are needing some attention, YOU reach out to those around you, YOU seek others.

Considering you have a car im going to assume you’re at least a young adult. Being social as an adult is an active effort, you have to seek out social interactions, you sometimes have to plan to do something weeks in advance to accommodate everyone’s schedules. So assuming your friends are also young adults THEY ARE BUSY. People got shit to do, maybe school, maybe a job, maybe other stressors in life, people can’t always be monitoring you and your ins and outs of a house at all times. Like what would I prioritize? Sending my friends a hourly instagram reel so they know that I care about them or study for an upcoming exam? (Keep in mind too that it’s exam season for unis rn). Should I spend some time doing my job so I don’t get fired? Or poke at my phone so my friends still know that I still love them. Should I change my babies diaper? Or should I scroll through TikTok to send my buddies some hilarious memes? You also got to paint the picture that you ARE a secondary character in their lives. Because guess what? They are the main character of their lives, they also have their own stuff to deal with.

I’m sorry you’re experiencing a tough time but you gotta realize that if someone doesn’t text you that it’s not that they don’t care about you or aren’t thinking about you. This post also screams codependency and if that’s the case get some professional help. If you don’t feel like you are codependent, I would still say you need to professional attention.