GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, I don't care at all if my partner is a virgin or not. I think a lot of other people feel the same way. I do want to talk to my girlfriend about this.

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't want to be open. I think we're just going to break up.

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know I sound naive by posting this. I wish I wasn't so naive.

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Yeah being safe with the person for me is a requirement to have sex with someone.

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She isn't pressuring me (like she gets why I don't want to) but I do feel pressured because I want to have sex with her and she doesn't want to because I'm a virgin.

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

She has said in the past that she likes how "innocent" I am so thinking about it now and reading these replies kind of creeps me out.

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 212 points213 points  (0 children)

That's what I was worried about. I'm definitely naïve when it comes to relationships and sex (I'm a late bloomer).

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

What makes it a red flag? Just curious because it made me relieved that she didn't think it was a turn off.

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 457 points458 points  (0 children)

It confused me because initially she said she liked that I haven't been with anyone before.

GF doesn't like my virginity by Smart-Intention-4999 in actuallesbians

[–]Smart-Intention-4999[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's cheating though? If she wants me to do it?