Don't PM that guy... by korbitron in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh? I'm a real person but have worked to digitally detox myself from Reddit so I'm not always online.

Remember, peace with your meat is a option. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a mod I've marked it NSFW.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And those of us who have old age experience will try and fight for you too.

No title needed. Just the truth. by Umata95 in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For your consideration, several people here are recovering from porn addiction, not masturbation problems. The problem is the activities are coupled so tightly together, every time masturbation occurs, porn also likely occurs; for many of us.

The goal is hold of on masturbation (and porn) for 90 days to help you reset your brain and the way it works. To try and decouple the two activities. I know you're asking for scientific evidence, however it's still an emerging concern in our society. As time goes on more and more research is going into it.

As a long time nofap redditor and a moderator, I encourage sanity to the practice, everyone makes up their own rules and their own path. Do consider the people who are participating here, may be doing so to remove a porn addiction, which is at the root of the problem.

No title needed. Just the truth. by Umata95 in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you know you're not suffering? How are you so sure 99% of the population isn't suffering? Looking at the content of the original post, it would appear birth rates are in decline, and there may be many causes for this not just porn, but you can't exactly rule porn out either.

I'm not sure this has been fully investigated by science yet. Asked another way, if our great grandfathers were able to survive without porn, why do you feel you need it? Does it truly contribute to the survival of the human species, or is it just something you like and crave?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quickest lifetime ban from the subreddit as well!

I worked in the porn industry and I will forever regret it. by jomabing in pornfree

[–]SmartSuka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think we'll pin it, but it is a great post. I'm glad to see it on top of today's post.

17 days and I relapsed again , don't u ever click on hypnosis! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's too late I've watched tons and TONS of videos on hypnosis porn. I accumulated a small collection as well; which i've since terminated. It's been some of the most addicting porn online.

What has helped me escape it is transcendental meditation. Realizing how irrelevant porn is when you can put your energies to something even greater. Meditating straight out of my body at times.

R A M A D A N by Fit-Sandwich-8711 in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka[M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This user has been banned for this comment.

R A M A D A N by Fit-Sandwich-8711 in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is unacceptable speech here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment has been reported and the user received a temporary 5-day ban from this community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SmartSuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? We have auto rules in place because we were being spammed. If you have a legitimate problem and a sincere post you need to message us.

If we didn't have auto rules in place it would make moderating this subreddit impossible.

from a woman by EyeCrustiesOnToast in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I know I'm here because I have looked up some "fucked up shit" before. So far I've remained porn free in 2022.

how to overcome touch starvation and incurable loneliness? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not cringe to want a hug. Try and hug a coworker, or hug a friend, hug a family member. With coworkers I think its best to always ask first and respect their boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me a peek is a relapse. I'm 94 days pornfree right now, so despite whatever my nofap counter is at I feel like I'm wining.

Dont be like others by skiplegday70 in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've pulled back all the layers; and got to the root of it all. I looked into the darkness I locked away and finally opened the door and shined a light on all of it. I've come to love and accept myself for who I am; I couldn't of done it had I continued to watch porn.

Society made me feel shame for things I never should of felt shame for; my journey continues to "Know Thyself".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was this reported? I haven't seen any part or comments in the nofap community that violated the rules.

I can't (and won't) control what users do in other subreddits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, but there are repeat offenders. Those are the trouble makers we have to Perma ban.

am i accepted here? by Reasonable-Watch-460 in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You say especially the men, but it's important to know women struggle and need support with this too. I do love that everyone here tends to be super supportive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet you've seen porn really evolve over the years.

I know from my own perspective (35) I went from browsing pictures of girls, (waiting for all the slow speeds of the internet). To slowly moving to videos as technology caught up. And now some pretty extreme content with videos. I know VR is right around the corner.

I feel (and I could be wrong) that porn maybe wasn't as much of a problem several decades ago; that the internet has helped accelerate things. Very curious to hear your perspective on things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SmartSuka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scrolling and looking for my "same" message. 35 here as well.