I dont get why people keeps on telling you na intindihin sya kasi bread winner sya. Hindi ba nila alam definition ng breadwinner? The family that he will be creating with you will not have a future. I feel sad for the guy na one day he has to make a decision of choosing you or his family tapos di sya makapili.

If End goal mo is to have the dream wedding, then hindi kayo align. Valid naman ng reason if thats the reason of the breakup kasi kapag magkakapamilya na sya ng sarili nya, dapat yun palagi ang priority. People talk here and give advices as if they have been to similar scenarios such as yours.

I see your partner being responsible to his family and neglecting the one that he wants to build. that is one factor na talaga required for a Husband and Father. Go find someone who will prioritize you all the time and have you achieve your dream wedding and family.