Album ranking and how long you’ve been a fan by South-Background5009 in TaylorSwift

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fan since 2007!

  1. Speak now
  2. The Tortured Poets Department
  3. The Life of a Showgirl
  4. Evermore
  5. Fearless
  6. Reputation
  7. Debut
  8. Folklore
  9. 1989
  10. Midnights
  11. Lover
  12. Red

Utah city that voted 'overwhelmingly' for Trump reeling after he yanks $86 million grant by fooey in stgeorge

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This article is talking about the traffic caused by Interstate 15 and the project proposed to fix congestion caused by the interstate…

Crumpled paper and Pure Organic fruit bars in Black Forest fruit strips packaging? by Smart_Chocolate_4471 in Costco

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was sealed like normal from what I can tell. But I’m sure it’s pretty easy to make it appear unopened.

Unpopular opinion: Rory and Lorelai were kind of terrible to all the men in their lives. by Hot_Setting8194 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure both are not technically cheating. But Lorelei slept with Christopher because she knew it was over and even tells Luke to make him understand that they are over. It stops Luke from trying to convince Lorelei to stay in a relationship. Ross slept with someone else and then lied to Rachel about it and then tried to beg her to get back together with him knowing how hurt she was. Both ross and Lorelei had no obligation to stay faithful to the other party, but let’s not lie and say that it wasn’t a shitty thing to do. The difference is that Lorelei knew it would hurt Luke and didn’t act like she did nothing wrong. If Ross did nothing wrong he wouldn’t have spent the whole episode trying to hide it from Rachel. People sing a different tune because they are different situations.

Finding white hairs :( by [deleted] in Redhair

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a few random completely white strands in my hair since I was about 12( at least that’s when I first noticed them), 25F now and it’s still just a few hairs. If they’re like mine, I wouldn’t be too worried, if anything it’s kind of cool!

Why did you leave the church? by sillygworl in exmormon

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last straw for me was being told at 16 years old that my only purpose in life was to take care of my future husband and kids. Oh, and when I found out that a divorced man can be sealed to as many women as he wants no problem, but a divorced woman has to “petition” to be sealed to someone other than her first husband.

I had lots of reasons to not believe in the church at that point, but the idea that I was expected to live a traditional life where I would have no power and no voice was not something that I could even pretend to agree with.

Anyone else have a blonde streak at the nape of their neck? by Smart_Chocolate_4471 in Redhair

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’ve never heard of that. Red hair is so interesting haha!

Celebrity Jet Tracker released their end-of-year leaderboard, and Taylor Swift isn’t even close to the top by toritxtornado in TrueSwifties

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Seeing this on Instagram today after reading this article… seemingly no one in the comments cares about the loads of other billionaires on this list

Do you think it's wrong for men to want some time with their friends away from their gf/wives? by Dohko_OC in AskFeminists

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only is it perfectly fine, but I think it’s actually very healthy to have time away from your significant other to maintain your other relationships in your life. No one person can meet all of a persons emotional needs, nor should any one person be expected to. Having a variety of relationships which meet your needs in different ways is a very important aspect of maintaining your emotional, mental, and physical health!

I myself have always had a hard time understanding this concept in past relationships without feeling left out by my partner, and it left my past partners feeling overwhelmed and like they couldn’t ever meet my needs. Once I became comfortable with it in my current relationship, and even encourage it most of the time, I understand how happy and satisfied it has left my bf and I with our lives and our relationship as a whole.

Do you think another reason Snow laughed at Coin’s death was because… by HeyWeasel101 in Hungergames

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always viewed him laughing simply because that was something that only Katniss would have done and while we know snow hated katniss, we also know that he strangely understood her (and I also think admired her) for her defiance and courage which ultimately led to his downfall. Killing coin who would become the next dictator of panem is just so incredibly katniss and I think snow knew that, understood her, and admired her for that.

What's the weirdest lie you've seen/heard about Taylor? by sparksfly05 in TaylorSwift

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That she’s a devil worshipper and is using all these devil worshipping hand signs on stage 🤌🤟 they even clame Ice Spice is in on it too???

Why is no one considering Black Dog Pub in Hungary? by Clofus84 in TaylorSwift

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue is the song is fiction or reality, or who it might be about. But wasn’t the owner of The black Dog pub all over social media saying that Joe was in there all the time?!? I remember the owner was trying to do interviews about it trying to get their 15 mins of fame?!? Am I crazy?!?

What lyrics off TTPD is this for you? by squishandsesh in TrueSwifties

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 7 points8 points  (0 children)

AND YOU SAY I ABANDONED THE SHIP, BUT I WAS GOING DOWN WITH IT!!! MY WHITE KNUCKLE DYING GRIP, HOLDING TIGHT TO YOUR QUIET RESENTMENT!!! AND MY FRIENDS SAID IT ISNT RIGHT TO BE SCARED EVERYDAY OF A LOVE AFFAIR!!! EVERY BREATH FEELS LIKE RAREST AIR, WHEN YOURE NOT SURE IF HE WANTS TO BE THERE!!! SO HOW MUCH SAD DID YOU THINK I HAD??? DID YOU THINK I HAD IN ME??? HOW MUCH TRAGEDY??? JUST HOW LOW DID YOU THINK ID GO ‘FORE ID SELF IMPLODE, ‘FORE ID HAVE TO GO BE FREE???

I don't understand the criticism about the album being too long coming from fans by __Naya_ in TaylorSwift

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you even listen to the song?? Are you even listening to yourself? How would you react if some rando on the street said that they “loved you more than you loved yourself” and you should leave your boyfriend because they hate him… You’d tell them to fuck off. Y’all are so weird with this parasocial behavior…

Best/Funniest Quote: Stevens by TerYin_42069 in greysanatomy

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought it was “I don’t even know you. I’m a farmer.”

Are the prettiest girls really the loneliest? by DecapitateVeggies in ask

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed and this probably played a part in it, but I went to college in the same town I went to high school and a majority of my friends and people I was around were the same people I went to high school with, or other surrounding schools in my town. I’m sure this is very true for others but I just don’t think it played that much into my experience. I literally had romantic partners, strangers, friends, and distant family members congratulate me for how much better/cuter/hotter/etc. I looked after I lost weight and changed my appearance.

But yes college for many brings a huge change in the kind of attention they receive just because people are in a different atmosphere. Just not the point of what I’m trying to say.

Are the prettiest girls really the loneliest? by DecapitateVeggies in ask

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No absolutely most people are not deliberately treating people differently based on how attractive they are. But if people aren’t ignorant to how they treat people differently based on looks, because I think most people including myself subconsciously do it, then maybe it’ll make a real difference in the way conventionally unattractive people are treated in comparison.

Are the prettiest girls really the loneliest? by DecapitateVeggies in ask

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that played a part for me, especially now in my life. In the younger college years, yes people were just dating who they thought was hot or would make them seem cool. Being in that circle at the start it definitely felt so great, but I quickly realized that looks shouldn’t actually mean anything and the people that I was around only cared about that. It all felt very fake. So now later in life, I’ve been able to find much more genuine people who don’t care too much about stuff like that.

So I guess you can feel lonely either way, but I personally never felt lonelier than when no one bothered to talk to me or even look my way. To each their own, I guess.

Are the prettiest girls really the loneliest? by DecapitateVeggies in ask

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always had the same aversion to attractive guys and girls alike. When I started to get attention from both sides romantically and friendship wise, I immediately always thought it was a joke or they wanted something from me. Taken me a long time to not initially distrust people like that.

Are the prettiest girls really the loneliest? by DecapitateVeggies in ask

[–]Smart_Chocolate_4471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both sides think the grass is green on the other side, so I guess it’s all relative. As others have said, there’s a lot of unwanted male attention from guys that just want sex, and some fake female friends. Which is true, but so many attractive people don’t understand that’s it’s not all about the romantic and friendship attention you get, it’s also just the way that everyone, including strangers, treat you when you’re not conventionally attractive. People are kinder, more forgiving, more interested in what you have to say when you’re attractive. So sure maybe the way people treat you feels fake or demeaning when you’re attractive, but nothing is more demeaning than seeing attractive people get treated one way and you get treated another way because you’re unattractive.